is it right for a woman to make a first step?

Question

what man feels when she acts like that .... scared....or motiveted to do the same....is it right or wrong.....shall i wait for his first step....bcs i did that so much before.....just cudn't wait and all went not good...what am i to do...

Answer 1

Guys will come on here and say things like, yeah that would be cool or it would be a nice change, but the truth of the matter is if a guy doesn't make the first approach it will all go downhill. Men have to work for what they get or else they wont appreciate it. If you come on to him first then he feels he has you wrapped around his finger and he will take advantage. That's just the way it is.

Answer 2

I hate all that crap about the guy making the first move. You see how you get nervous to go up to a guy...? Well everyone's human, so many guys get the same jitters. If you know what you want, I say go for it. It may turn out good, or it may go bad, but at least you tried and wont have any regret about not meeting someone you find attractive. Thus far, making the first move has worked for me. I was waiiting for a guy to make a move, and it never happened. So one day I just kissed him good night, and it's all been uphill from there. He was just shy and uncertain about what I wanted.
Take a chance, you'll never know what you'll find..

Answer 3

This is the 21st century - if you want something, go for it. If he feels that is wrong then he needs to recognize that women are just as capable. He needs to check his manhood and pride at the door.

Answer 4

I think YES!
its a jet Age dear you women are in every field.
If a guy thinks you did something wrong asking him, then he dont deserver you.
You do a great favour for him for which he should be thankful to you

So DO it

Answer 5

well this is 2006 so yes it is

Answer 6

Yeah it is cool

Answer 7

Always.