2006-07-25 08:08:49 · 30 answers · asked by hollowaydn 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
no, sex is not painful, as long as you have a gentleman break you in. If it was painful, why would so many people be having sex all the time?
2006-07-25 08:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by blackknightpictures 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can be painful for a female when the hymen is first broken. It can also be painful for a female with an infection or an STD. It can also be painful, if he tries to skip foreplay. (Shame on you dudes.)It can also be painful if his penis is 2 foot long. LOL. But seriously, be sure you know who you truly are and who you truly want to share that most intimate part of your life with. Read about important issues like STDs and contraception. Think about the long term consequences of your actions. If you're not ready for that, you're probably not ready for sex. Wait for someone who loves and respects you enough to wait till you're really ready, don't rush this. You're very important. I really am an expert.
2006-07-25 15:16:54 · answer #2 · answered by dressed_2_kill_2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a expert,but I am sure it will hurt anyone when they do it for the first time. The best thing to do is use plenty of lube & tell your partner if u don't like something or if u experience pain. Good Luck.
2006-07-25 15:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is painful the first time and it should not be painful after that. If it painful after your first time, it could be caused by an infection and it should be checked out by a doctor.
2006-07-25 15:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time you have sex yes it will hurt im not going to lie to you and you will bleed just a little bit cause you popped your cherry but you will only bleed for about 2 min then you will stop.But after your first time it wont hurt anymore it will start to feel good. But always be safe and make your man wears a condom no matter what he says to you. You half to be safe.
2006-07-25 15:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are under about 17, yes it's going to hurt a lot. That's why it's too young. You may be able to do it, but it doesn't mean you should. When you are with him and you cant think of anything besides having some part of him in you and right now, it won't hurt much. If you are doing it because he wants you to or because you think you should, it's gonna hurt like a b****.
2006-07-25 15:12:31 · answer #6 · answered by Jester 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it, if it were THAT painful so many people wouldn't spend so much time thinking about it and doing it. Losing your virginity can be uncomfortable to painful however...
...when you are ready to take that step, you won't worry much about discomfort and hopefully the guy you are with will be gentle and understanding...just be sure you are using protection for pregnancy and STDs at that time and always afterward...
Take care of you...
2006-07-25 15:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should not be painful (after the first time). If it is, there is something wrong and you should see a doctor. Being anxious or nervous can make it uncomfortable, but not truly painful.
2006-07-25 15:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by MOM KNOWS EVERYTHING 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time it is. After that you should be fine. But wait until you are ready. Plz don't have unprotected sex.
2006-07-25 15:13:56 · answer #9 · answered by crazychick777_2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it hurts, you're doing something wrong... either going too fast or you're nervous or otherwise tense.
There are some rare conditions that women can experience that make sex painful, but they are very rare...
Sex should be pleasurable for everyone involved... that why we do it!!!!
2006-07-25 15:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by answerlady1021 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋