I'm kind of pretty and 5'5 140 lbs. I have an okay figure, but guys are never attracted to me. Should I start working out more and wear more revealing clothes?
2006-07-25 08:07:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
just find somone who loves you for who you are, not what you look like.
2006-07-25 08:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Acknutz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, anyone that tells you on this post for you to lose weight should right now go ahead and bury themselves in a ditch and live their for a few years. You are overweight but you don't NEED to lose any pounds if you have a nice figure, I know a lot of girls that are overweight but are sexier then any of the skinny girls at our school. Try to work at your figure, ride a bike every now and then, skip dessert once a week or something, you don't need to, but you can if you're uncomfortable with yourself.
Please, for the sake of the future (not that there's much hope for them anymore) do NOT wear revealing clothes. I can understand where you're coming from though... I'm around your height and I weigh 113, I started thinking it was because I felt fat but I'm starting to just bang my head on the table for thinking that ^^; I don't attract any guys to me although I'm pretty sure I have an okay figure and I look kind of pretty.
Anyways... the main point is that wearing revealing clothes (I'm talking about miniskirts, short-shorts, tube tops exec) will really attract the WRONG type of guys looking at you... and you do NOT want that... because that will lead to foul names and other unpleasant things as well... But if you're a really REALLY conservative person (AKA really lose jeans, baggy sweatshirts... exec.) the consider just glamoring it up a bit... wear a skirt every once and a while, wear a tank top to school when it's hot... just don't go overboard.
Most importantly... give it time.... give yourself a new hairstyle, do something fun with your makeup... put yourself out there and flirt every once and a while. It takes time but try to attract attention to yourself, you'll find the right guy and he'll be attracted to your personality, not just your body.
Hope everything works out and that this helps you <3
2006-07-25 16:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by Mimblewimble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can wear more revealing clothes but THE RIGHT WAY. Make sure others dont mix you up with being a "sl*t" or "h*" when you just wna look good. Yanno, theres a right & wrong way. And also, if you are tryna attract guys by dressing more revealing, then the guys that you attract just wants BOOTY & is only attracted to you just cause you dress like "other girls" or like the media. & Plus, not ALL guys are into gross boney lookin girls with mini skirts to show off their toothpick legs & spaghetti straps. So i dont think you should change your wardrobe completely. Just spice it up a little, go shopping, have fun, & buy what you KNOW looks right on you. Cause you know dont EVER change for NOBODY, but yourself, & TRUST ME ON THIS ONE. Goodluck =)
2006-07-25 23:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by Linda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Working out is good, but it's all in the attitude. Revealing clothes will get you attention, but leaving something to the imagination is often sexier. Try to be more outgoing, look people in the eye and say hi to them when they walk by, joke around and flirt. Someone who believes in her own charms without being stuck up is always sexy.
2006-07-25 15:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by BB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be sexy you have to start by being yourself and emphasizing the attributes you already have. Buy some nice clothes which don't have to be sleazy, but that compliment your figure. Wear some makeup, perhaps get a new hairstyle. Also, work on your self-confidence. That always attracts people.
2006-07-25 15:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by angelicjolie2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, and if you had a picture of you i'd help more by telling what you can fix up and stuff but also put on nice natural make-up and act nice and sweet around nice hot guys and wear revealing clothes---if you think thats right...
2006-07-25 15:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by *me* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should probably lose about 5-10 more pounds and then wear more revealing clothes. guys such as myself are very shallow and like revealing clothes.
2006-07-25 15:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by jb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT wear more revealing clothes, please. thats the last thing you need to do. the type of guys you want will be more attracted to your classiness rather than your slutiness. and working out never hurts.
2006-07-25 15:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No revealing clothes make you look cheap sometimes get a classier sexy look and they should like you for who you are
2006-07-25 15:13:15 · answer #9 · answered by chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we dont kno u just by knowing ur weight and heigth we wony b able to pinpoint ur exact needs and flaws ask a close freind! if u have a boy as a freind ask him or a brother mighht b embarrissing but r advice would not help!
2006-07-25 15:13:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound hot to me! wear more revealing clothes and be proud for who you are
2006-07-25 15:16:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋