I have a friend who was married, met a married man- both unhappy in their marriages they begin cheating with each other, then they get married, have a baby, when the baby is about 6 months old he gets a friend who is a female & begins spending alot of time with her, all the while knowing that his wife is at home crying every night they are together because she thinks something is going on between thm. he keep insisting that theres nothing, its only a friendship & he spends time w/ her only regarding sports type things because she really likes sports &the wife doesnt. then the wife begins to find secretive email that say things like "had a great time last night, cant wait to see you again" or "I am so excited for this weekend, we're gonna have so much fun"etc..again the wife is upset &crying but husband continues to ignore her feelings & goes out a few nights a week w/ this "friend". The "friend" gets pregnant to someone & decides its a bad thing, has an abortion, wife thinks it might
2006-07-25 08:03:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
her husbands baby but they both deny deny deny. she has no way of finding out. Now the husband and friend hate each other and dont talk. This seems so weird to me and I think it sounds like he had another affair and got her pregnant and didnt wanna face the consequences so he they agreed she would abort- wife believes the husband when he says he didnt have sex with her, I think he's lying. what do yo think?
2006-07-25 08:05:38 · update #1
This is So Maury or Jerry Springer or even Lifetime channel !!
But the scenario with him getting her pregnant, the abortion and friendship ending sure sounds pretty fishy and very probable.
First and Foremost let's remember:
WHAT GOES AROUND / COMES AROUND!!
However, without proof of some sort, one would drive themselves crazy with "What IF's" so there is not much to be done!
I think that you are on to something with your current beliefs about how it went down but its all just speculation that could really ruin a marriage without proof!
Keep your eyes on that Guy, though! If he hasn't learned from his mistake He will be bound to repeat it and remember everything done in the dark will come to the light....It just takes time!
2006-07-25 08:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by Just My Thoughts... 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You told the facts in the story, and you & the wife know he was lying, so why waste time asking a dumb question. Yes it was his baby, and she stopped talking to him because he wouldn't leave his wife for her. He's a compulsive liar, and cheater, so your friend needs to think about what she wants in her life. She's going to always deal with this in a relationship with him, and it's mainly because of the way they both got together.
2006-07-25 08:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 23:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liar
2006-07-25 08:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by cautionim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lying. They aren't talking as friends now because the abortion screwed things up for them. I can guarantee damn tee you that they were sleeping together
2006-07-25 08:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One a cheater, always a cheater.
He cheated on his previous wife, to be with the current wife... so what makes her think he's going to be faithful to her?
I think he's cheating.
2006-07-25 08:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by Betty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother with all the drama. If she is at home crying she needs to balls up and leave him.....wouldn't she be better off???
I feel if you have to question if your significant other is cheating you shouldn't bother with them in the first place.
2006-07-25 08:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be or not don't know yet but u listen to this he cheated on his 1st wife he'll cheat on her 2 once a dog almost dog if he cheated once he'll cheat again
2006-07-25 08:09:19 · answer #8 · answered by koumba s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one needs to be introduce to Joey Grecko from cheaters!!!
2006-07-25 08:18:46 · answer #9 · answered by American Pride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he cheated on his other wife hes prolly cheating on her too. hes a big LIAR.
2006-07-25 08:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋