this man i used to talk to for about two years who i dont want to talk to anymore wont leave me alone i have threatned everything but dont want to really get him in trouble partly because i lied to him about my age when we first met told him i was 18 when i was really 14. I've since then told him the but he continues to try and bother me how can i get him to leave me alone?
2006-07-25 08:03:20 · 5 answers · asked by Hello!!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he thinks that i really like him but only as a friend he is way told old for me 26 and i realize that now.
2006-07-25 08:04:15 · update #1
then he has the nerve to call me childish and when i tell him to leave me alone he thinks im playin
2006-07-25 08:05:23 · update #2
AVOID THIS GUY LIKE THE PLAGUE! If it doesn't work and you feel like he is 'stalking' you, you NEED to take legal action!
First of all, DON'T feel bad about lying about your age - he found out you were only 14 and he STILL wants to be with you?? Something is WRONG with him and he is probably a PEDOPHILE!!! He could be DANGEROUS! Read the news stories about young girls who get in too deep with older men - sometimes they wind up raped, or dead!
You are only 14 but don't be NAIVE!! This guy is old enough to know that bothering you is breaking the law! Don't be afraid to get him in trouble - he is in the wrong!!!
ABOUT YOUR EXTRA NOTE: HE IS CALLING YOU 'CHILDISH' AS A WAY TO MANIPULATE YOU INTO FEELING BAD AND DOING WHAT HE WANTS. DON'T BELIEVE HIM!!! HE IS A GROWN MAN AND MEN WHO WANT TO BE AROUND YOUNG GIRLS ARE PEOPLE WHO WANT TOTAL CONTROL - BE CAREFUL AND DON'T BELIEVE A WORD HE SAYS!!!
2006-07-25 08:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by Lori 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you may be in a stalker type of situation. If he does not leave you alone get a restraining order. If he violates it he can go to jail. Be careful some stalkers turn violent. And from now on don't lie about your age. Take this as a lesson.
2006-07-25 15:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the fact that you originally lied about your age is important.
The important thing is that you've told him how old you really are and he's still not leaving you alone after many requests to do so.
Go to your parents. If they can't get him to stop, then go to the police.
2006-07-25 15:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) You can tell your parents and let them help you handle it or 2) you can warn him one more time and then go to your towns clerk of court and take out a restraining order if he will not leave you alone. Most states now have anti-stalking laws.
2006-07-25 15:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get help or get the hell out of there
2006-07-25 15:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋