If you had to choose, would you rather...
1. Have someone you don't truly love?
OR
2. Be in love with someone you can never have?
2006-07-25 08:03:04 · 4 answers · asked by sexychik1977 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
#2...It's better to have loved and lost...
Kinda sad, huh?
2006-07-25 08:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by kojak0527 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel like when a person falls in love they have no choice in the matter. I could fall in love with a married guy twice my age, a young gay stud, or my female best friend. Being in love with someone you can't have would be at least...tolerable, and more so as time went by.
I think there are different degrees of "don't truly love". You can be with somebody and not be truly, madly, deeply, in love, BUT...you can love their smile, their hug, their companionship, their intelligence, thei rsense of humor, their cooking, their dog...
Everybody is not lucky enough to find that person that rocks their world...but then, some people are content to just rock in the chair on the front porch!
If I had to choose...I'd want the companionship.
2006-07-25 08:38:31 · answer #2 · answered by persnickety1022 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather be en love with someone I could never have beacuse i have been through that before so i know how to handle it
2006-07-25 08:07:32 · answer #3 · answered by hot chik#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rather have someone that I don't truly love
2006-07-25 08:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by dadyslilgirl5377 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋