i guess its cause he has 7 brothers all over the age of 21, they all have their own families but they still depend on on my dumb hubby for money rent and bills it seems they never have it together and his dumb *** always falls for it putting me in 2nd place i think i should leave him what do you think?
2006-07-25 07:57:48 · 6 answers · asked by Rey V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let me give you some advice....
When boys are together they will act like idiots and ignore you 99% of the time.. Especially his brothers, they all act like there supermen and dont need their women..
Just know that fact when you go see his family and all will be fine.. He means nothing by it but you just have to hang with the chicks..
Just a guy telling you like it is....
2006-07-25 08:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leaving him will fix what? Especially if kids are involved. Don't be too hasty. Have you tried talking to him. If push comes to shove get a separate bank account. The number one cause of divorce in this country is finances. Sit down and go over as to who will be in charge of what bill and make that clear and write it down.
2006-07-25 15:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try telling him he's being used but alot of times it really take the individual to realize it themselves before things change.
2006-07-25 15:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by Carp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. If you work too then he should be asking you about money before dishing it out. If you dont work than I guess he can do what he wants with his money.
2006-07-25 15:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont leave him, just talk to him about it, and if he still gives you a hard time- then yes
2006-07-25 15:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him tell him they are using him
2006-07-25 15:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋