2006-07-25 07:45:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
because society tells us that thin is good and the thinner the better. it is drilled into our heads from the start : TV Cartoon, Barbe, all of it plays a role// but i will say this that's bull **** I'm not fat but I'm a thick sexy women and i rather have a bit more weight then be a stick...
2006-07-25 07:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by JMO 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The one girl that says:
I'm not fat but I'm a thick sexy women and i rather have a bit more weight then be a stick...
Well, I totally disagree. I have been on both sides.. most of my life I have been super skinny.. (33 year old mother of one nearly 16 yr old.. and 5'8" and like 110-130) and recently (within the last six months) due to a medication I have gained quite a bit and am up to like 190-195.. nearly 200lbs!!!
I would definitely rather be the way I WAS!!!! Because at least when I'm thin I:
FEEL healthy,
have way more energy,
I'm MUCH more flexible,
my clothes aren't too tight.. (I literally had to go buy a whole new wardrobe) and I don't have to dress to hide the fat gushing over the top of my pants/shorts/skirts..
and I felt a LOT better about myself too.
The only good thing I've found with gaining weight is the size of my boobs and my *** isn't quite so flat.. (though I am told I have a killer *** even when I'm skinny)...which just isn't worth all this BS I live with from being fat.. and actually?
I'm really not even fat comparitively speaking! I Only wear between about a size 11 to a 13 depending on the brand.
Thats not all.. other bad things about gaining all this weight.. is the rash I get on my pantyline if I dont keep myself shaved completely..which means I have to shave every day! I have NEVER had this problem until now!
Nor have I ever retained so much water that my anklebones disappear! I have to take an herbal diuretic to keep off the water weight..(called XPel.. look for it at Vitamin World.. you'll drop one-two pants sizes within TWO days! just follow the directions) Also, my back hurts All the time! and my FEET, oh my god! I don't drive, so I walk everywhere.. but NOW?? Just a walk from one end of the mall to the other and back and my poor swollen feet hurt soooo bad! and half my shoes don't fit either! My feet are too swollen for any of my sandals or heels.
If all of this is from gaining fifty pounds... NO THANK YOU!
I'd rather be asked if I'm anorexic every freakin day for the rest of my life... which I know damn well will be much longer if I'm thin, rather than fat. No ands, ifs or buts about it.
2006-07-25 08:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by wendyrx/piscesfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the media and people in general are brain washed in thinking thin is better looking and more attractive than a out of shape woman. Check out nudie magazines, porn movies, nude bars not a out a shape women anywhere. Men always perfer sexy shapley woman they can show off. Have you seen a large women naked.? Also more men complains about how weight their wives gain after they had been married. It really is'nt pretty.
2006-07-25 09:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
because of the reactions like vicky replied. Sometimes health issues cause people to gain weight, did you ever think of that vicky? Geesh, we just want to be accepted and normal like everyone else, not judged by how we look or the fact that we aren't skinny enough...Am I overweight, yes...can I change..of course. But before you judge me by my weight maybe you should ask yourself why am I this way? Or even better, get to know me before you think like an idiot?
2006-07-25 07:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to a lot of ppl it's unattractive......I'm pissed right now b/c i let myself go this vacation and gained 9 lbs.....my goal was to lose 5 and then i gain 9.......I'm not overweight or fat and for the most part I'm toned but it's a fear of becoming rejected and being made fun of...........I don't ever in my life want to be bigger than the way i am now.......except for the fact that i want to get a little taller!!
2006-07-25 08:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fat women are visually and aesthetically disgusting, and abusing oneself sends a fairly sparkling message that someone would not like themselves. fat and overweight lady, regularly, have offensive demeanors, or make amends for his or her self-loathing and unattractiveness by technique of being 'bubbly' and effusively, and probably satisfied.
2016-10-15 09:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we don't want to look in the mirror and see rolls and flab, and besides, even though 60% of people are overweight, it is NOT portrayed as sexy or anything near it in this country.
2006-07-25 07:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by BB 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhh ..im going through that problem now!! Because they are less likely to get a good looking husband!
Well thats not all..the self esteem goes down and you dont feel pretty or worth anyones time.
2006-07-25 07:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by soccer_nerd23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So easy to put on but 10 times harder to get it off.
Everything is much harder to do. Clothes don't look good. Restricted.
2006-07-25 07:51:30 · answer #9 · answered by ridethestar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because fat is gross so we hate to become fats☆
2006-07-25 07:54:30 · answer #10 · answered by ☆ point waster☆ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋