I'm 14, and I think I might be bi. I don't know if I am or not. I have never done anything with a girl, or a guy for that matter. I've had two boyfriends,and was in love with one of them. I've been questioning for a little over a year now. In the past few days I've been questioning more. I don't need people to say oh you're just 14, 14 year olds don't know if they're straight, gay or bi. I need serious answers please, if you need to ask more questions about it e-mail me at my_faded_rainbow@yahoo.com
2006-07-25 07:30:38 · 11 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Don't tell me who I've been in love with or not. Just because I'm 14 doesn't mean I'm some stupid immature girl that whenever they get a boyfriend they say oh I love him. That's not me.
2006-07-25 07:35:55 · update #1
i am bi, and although I prefer men, I was attracted to women first. I've known since I was 8 (6 years ago). and it don't matter if your gay ,bi or a dike don't let offers think for u and don't let other people judge u
p.s i'm 14 to
2006-07-26 01:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by Ride Or Die Chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am bi and I have really always known something was different. When I thought about my girl friends in a sexual way it freaked me out at first. Then one night I got the guts to try something. I kissed my best friend and then we went further. It was fun I never thought that I would do it again, but for me I'm more comfortable with another female. I'm now 20 and although I enjoy both male and female, there's just something a girl can give that a guy can't.
2006-07-25 14:56:28 · answer #2 · answered by kendra17_2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If "you think you were in love" you probably were. However, why let it eat at you? What about being bisexual is so BAD to you? The social stigma, the way people treat men who "love" other men? Or the fact that both of your "true" loves so far have been guys and not girls? This doesn't mean that one WON'T be "in time" and at your age, YOU HAVE LOTS LEFT! So, RELAX! Don't take life so seriously!!! Remember, that just because you like guys doesn't mean there's not a special girl out there for you too! This life is all about "interaction" and that means the more you get out there and mingle, make new friends and circulate (not necessarily party, but while in say High School, College, join extra curricular activities that will introduce you to the maximum number of people). Or as I say, "circulate, circulate, circulate." That way, you meet people your age that have your interests in common and a whole lot of them. Sooner or later, one is bound to attract you and you her/him.
Good luck.
2006-07-25 14:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you attracted to another woman? Because if you are, then maybe you could be bi, but maybe not. I tried being with women before, and it was not for me. Although I can appreciate the beauty of a woman, I am not able to have a sexual relationship with a woman, it just doesn't turn me on, but I didn't know that until I tried it. Before I was ever with a woman, the thought of being with a woman turned me on. The only advice I can give you is to try it, and you'll know for sure. You may not get that far, maybe just a kiss, and you might make up your mind right then and there. For me though, it turns out I only like men.
2006-07-25 14:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by Sheryl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a grown adult with two children age 8 and 10 currently pregnant. I knew at a very young age about 9 that i was more attracted to girls. I had my first girl/girl relationship at 14 before i was ever sexual with a guy. It is something you know if you are bi. I have had had several girlfriends before settling down and having a traditional family. Yes, i still find women attractive but, I'm committed to my husband and happy with the choice to have a family. I know I'm bi but, i never saw myself with a women as life long commitment. yes it can be totaly normal to think other women girls are attractive and not be bi sexual. I always knew for me it was more then just thinking they were nice looking.
2006-07-25 14:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like im bi and i dont know why but i think that the human body is nasty sometimes. Like seaman, who would want that on their face? eeeeewwwww anyway just go with it but i would seriously consider going the natural way of guy and girl. It is a sin to be bi, or gay. I would never act upon the fact that i feel like im bi and i will always go with my faith first.
2006-07-25 15:31:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my now boyfriend went thru the same thing. His first love broke his heart and for years he thought he was gay. Turns out he was just woman hating...lol. I am bi and I believe that you know yoruself better then any one esle. I dont think you need us to tell you what you are (sexually). good luck.
2006-07-25 14:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by Jo T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am bi, and although I prefer men, I was attracted to women first. I've known since I was 8 (20 years ago).
2006-07-25 14:34:32 · answer #8 · answered by Bunny*Run 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some people now but some dont and bi is when you like both lizz is just female what does your folks thank is what you might want to do for now and when you get older you will now more
2006-07-25 14:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by sassydella420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter if your bisexual, if you think you might be because you check girls out , think again , alot of girls/women including myself look at other girls breast butts, etc. not because we want them or because were lesbian or bi its because we try to compare ourselfs, and see what looks better , and we try to improve our selfs.
i for the past year have been also questioning my sexuality as well, im not going to try because i love my boyfriend and his ex girlfriend turned on him
2006-07-25 14:39:42 · answer #10 · answered by lovesugarkisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋