I get mad when my hubby watches porns, but the truth is, I do it too. Should I stop doing it, should I tell him, or what can I do to not get mad when he watches it ?
2006-07-25 07:22:28 · 14 answers · asked by spoiled_angel80 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We do watch together, but I enjoy it better alone.
2006-07-25 07:29:08 · update #1
I am married to for five years and i had the same problem and then i told him i like to watch it to but by my self and it turns him on even more because i learn from it. so try it.
2006-07-25 07:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by Daisy H 1 · 5⤊ 3⤋
You make no sense! You watch it together and that is ok with you but if he watches it by himself you get mad? The people in the movie aren't going to come out of the t.v. and have sex with him when he is watching it alone! It is the same as if you were watching it alone or watching it with him. Tell him you do it too when he isn't around there is no reason to hide it especially if you watch it with him! There is nothing to get mad about its just a movie with naked people having sex, same thing you probably do with your husband! You can't have double standards and that's what this is!
2006-07-25 15:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by ~Amanda~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well while he's watching it, stop for a moment and check it out together. See what turns him on about watching it and hopefully the guilt you have in sneaking to watch it can be resolved. Likely this will stop your frustration about him watching it, because you'll have a better understanding of why he does it.
2006-07-25 14:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by mrpuffandstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you get mad. If both of you like to watch porn then watch it together. Problem solved.
2006-07-25 14:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by prtybrneyez1081 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a porn video of just you playing with yourself and both of you watch it!
2006-07-25 14:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by feroz101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you have to hide things is when you are embarrassed by it. So imagine him walking in on you while you're watching it. Why don't you ask him to watch it discreetly when you're not around to get angry.
2006-07-25 15:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by jade11378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch it together. And you can distract him pretty quick 'cuz he'll be so ready for you that the porn'll vanish from his mind.
2006-07-25 14:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by Pyromaniac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, you two just watch it together!
2006-07-25 14:25:24 · answer #8 · answered by M D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you watch porn also, but you think its time the two of you make your own.
2006-07-25 14:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you don't watch it, and tell him that it disgusts you, and then stick with that decsion - - then tell him politely that you wish he wouldn't watch it either, it might work.
2006-07-25 14:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by misty_blue2u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋