My husband's ex wife and I have recently formed a friendship. Here's the twist, she is sexaully attracted to me. What would you do?
2006-07-25 07:13:44 · 17 answers · asked by cautionim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ps. I have talked to my husband about this, he is still laughing. He just thinks it's a hoot. He has that sick sence of humor..lol...
2006-07-25 08:26:52 · update #1
Well first of all your married! Second it is your husbands ex-wife! If you are thinking about doing anything with this woman you better sit down and think about it before you do anything. Do you know she is only interested in you or is she using you to try to get her ex back? If you really love your husband and you want your marriage to work you should go talk to him about this. I'm sure he wouldn't want you to be involved in any way with his ex unless they are still friends. If you are interested in this woman tell your husband and maybe he would want to join in, if that's what your up for! What ever the case may be you need to talk to your husband first he does deserve that much!
2006-07-25 08:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by ~Amanda~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If my husband's ex was attracted to me I definitely would not do anything about it EXCEPT TELL MY HUSBAND AND HAVE A GOOD LAUGH at her expense. It would be way too creepy and not to mention, my husband's ex is a nasty, nasty, nasty whore and I don't go that way. Anyway, your husband has been there.......YUCK. It could backfire on you and probably would. Who's to say she is not just being scandalous so she can get back at your husband for something she has been harbouring resentment toward him for. She may just want to use you as the catalyst for revenge on him. Be very cautious. My husband's ex tried to befriend me once and I quickly found out that she was just doing it to get back at my husband and doing it to use me to keep her kids more often than we were supposed to. You husband's ex's intentions may not be genuine and even if they are you should not return the feelings. This is a huge big mess just waiting to happen. I guarantee you that her intentions are nothing short of ruthless. Just love your husband and stay faithful to him no matter what. The consequences will be awful and it is just not worth all the turmoil for a little rendezvous with, of all woman, your husband's ex wife. YUCK, YUCK, YUCK!!! Think logically about this. DO NOT DO IT.
2006-07-25 14:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by whatshername 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah...well, that's an awkward situation. The thing is...why would you want to be friends with your husband's ex? Don't you think he'd be a tad uncomfortable with that? Now...the crazier thing is that she's attracted to you. You're married to her ex husband, and love him. Just tell her that you're sorry, but you don't swing that way, and that you're happy with your hubby and don't want to cheat on him or do anything to hurt him, and that you'd rather just keep it friendly.
2006-07-25 14:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by Maico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband and tell her that you're not looking for that type of relationship. If there are no children between your husband and his ex...then I'd get her out of you life totally!!
2006-07-25 14:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by Jacob's Mommy (Plus One) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband and don't let it mess up your marriage. It sounds to me like you are already interested in exploring this further with her. I wouldn't go there personally. She may just be trying to wreck what you have.
2006-07-25 14:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by brandiwhine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would watch the 2 of you go at it. Kind of a weird sick fantasy.
2006-07-25 15:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by cormelmat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your husband more than she does then don't if you have plm want to get him back then yeah do some two some see how it goes and then have him join so all in the club. cool damn if my wife does feel like that want to do that I am in it .....
2006-07-25 14:16:46 · answer #7 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would politely tell her im not interested but im sure there are plenty of other beautiful women who would love to be with her and explain im happily married. then i wouldnt talk to her because she sounds like a fruitcake!
2006-07-25 14:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by princessashley2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds like the making of a jerry springer show
2006-07-25 14:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by dragonflies_42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sick
2006-07-25 14:20:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋