I left my husband and am looking for a new apartment. The reason I ask, is I really like this guy that I knew in High School and he is really a nice person. We have been talkin for a couple days and the crush I had on him kinda came back. Didnt mean for that to happen, but now its there!
2006-07-25 07:13:30 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When you are ready. Just make sure you are over your ex and move on. Life is short. Just dont bring the past into the future
2006-07-25 07:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That answer will be different for everyone. Some people can move on easily and others can not. You are the only one who can really answer that for yourself. Be sure that the new/old guy is not a "re-bound" reaction to your marriage break-up.I would also take the time apart with your husband to re-evaluate what you had. Is it really over?
2006-07-25 14:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by Louise On The Edge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the marriage over, and your old bf knows it, and your husband does too, and this guy was not your reason for leaving, then date him.......Hopefully you are not trying to take your soon to be ex for a lot of cash, you just want out...... otherwise, cool it until you have divorce papers in hand.
2006-07-25 14:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its different for everyone but i would say a year give or take a few months. Make sure that all feelings are over for the ex.
2006-07-25 22:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just remain friends with this new one until you are really really sure that you are ready for another relationship. Enjoy a good friendship at this point.
2006-07-25 14:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some start the same day.
2006-07-25 14:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by Nick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, why don't you take care of your marriage first. Remember the day you made all those solemn vows in front of god and a church full of witnesses? Grow up, loser!!!
2006-07-25 14:18:19 · answer #7 · answered by PriMord-001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you are legally seperated first. If not you might be charged with adultry.
2006-07-25 15:45:56 · answer #8 · answered by sparkles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋