My husband and I were seprated for a year but are now happily back together. The time we spent apart helped us both grow and learn to value each other much more. The only problem is now he thinks he loves me more than I love him, which simply isn't true! What is the most romantic thing I can do for him?
2006-07-25 06:55:54 · 29 answers · asked by Carissa is just Spanky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Meet him when he comes home from work with a 6pack of beer and you are only wearing a smile.
2006-07-25 07:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by DAVID S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey girl, it isn't a contest. You cannot quantify something like love and compare it to another. Tell him love is what love is. Enjoy each other as you are and don't screw with that.
Now romance is another topic all together. Always practice romance every chance you get. For guys though romance usually has to culminate in sex. Unless they are really mature and cool. There are a few out there that understand sex isn't the ultimate goal. If he is typical though giving him romantic evening with sex at the end will tell him what you want him to know.
2006-07-25 14:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by The Grand Inquisitor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he thinks his definition of love is and how he thinks a person should show love. He may have or you may have a misunderstanding about what love truly is. The way I show love to my husband is by thinking about his needs, likes and wants and trying to do some of those things for him. What is his favorite snack? What does he like to read? What is his favorite meal? Listen to what he says. My husband isn't good at this. When he tells me things he would like to purchase, movies he'd like to get etc. I buy them for his birthday , Christmas or just because.
Of course, love isn't just all about things bought. It goes much deeper.
Also consider this: When your husband says that he loves you more than you love him then he is having an insecurity problem.
Tell him that you love him. That he is the only one for you and that there would be a huge hole in your life if he wasn't there.
2006-07-25 14:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by rltouhe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to make him his favorite meal, sit him down and tell him exactly how much you do love him. If this is hard (because you know youll cry, or you wont be able to say what you really feel), buy him a small gift, and in the card tell him exactly what you love about him. Make sure to mention all the tiny things, to let him know you really mean it. It cant just say "I love you", you have to tell him why if you really want to make it stick. Good Luck!
2006-07-25 14:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by Stacy Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a day that he has off work and you plan a breakfast in bed morning sex and straight up tell him you the happiest girl alive to be exactly where you are with him and just pour out your heart on how much you love him and point out every thing that made you love him when you first met him and everything you still love about him now bring up good memories of the past and explain your love for all of him
2006-07-25 14:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by teresa d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect him.
Make his favorite dinner.
Say "I Love You" at least 2 times a day.
Hide a romantic letter/poem for him somewhere where he will find it while doing an ordinary, everyday task.
Hang pictures of him a buch of places.
Create special outings you can go on - a canoe trip and picnic, a walk by a waterfall etc.
Smile often.
2006-07-25 14:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by randomactsofkindness2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe do something romantic? I'm really bad at this but - cook a nice dinner for him and tell him how much he means to you. Something like that? Or maybe surprise him with a little vacation somewhere nice.
Good luck. =)
2006-07-25 13:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by jessiebrenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot you can do to him to show how much you love him...sometimes simple things matter...like...
making a nice breakfast in bed
write a small notes like 10reason why I love you (tuck it in his pocket secretly)
wake him up nicely
preparing his clothes for work
holding his hand
always say thank you when he does something good for you
looking deep in his eyes and tell him how much you love him
2006-07-25 14:13:45 · answer #8 · answered by belle_chocolatiere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention. Listen to his ideas, hopes and dreams. Maybe call him or send him notes during the day and maybe cook him a nice dinner sometime. Let him know he is first with you.
2006-07-25 14:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex alone wont do it. Listening and communicating are the key factors in a great relationship. Ask him what would please him romantically, sexually, and a night on the town. Let him be a man
and you be as feminine as you can. Good luck,
2006-07-25 14:06:20 · answer #10 · answered by toughcockney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋