well see I am bisexual, but I am deeply disturbed by the fact that I think I have become more so than originally presumed.... I dont think I can be with a man anymore, not even my husband, married since sept.
2006-07-25 06:30:08 · 7 answers · asked by jbviolino 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
okay so he and I rushed into the marrieage becasue he is also from a different country and I kind of felt more pressured into it and he did know I was bi.... I just dont get sexual gratification, and I thought it would get better, I havent orgasmed once during sex, and I dont think that is normal... I just find myself liking women more.
2006-07-25 07:20:13 · update #1
If you think you are gay, you should prolly figure that one out for sure first.
2006-07-25 06:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try for an annulment. You are in a serious jam especially if your husband did not know you were bi. Well you can ask for a divorce or bite the bullet and ask for an annulment and risk bad feelings. Just get a divorce and ask for nothing. Because a sheet of paper is not going to change the fact that you got married in the first place. Another thing, you better be very sure that you are gay before you jump off into deep waters. Good luck.
2006-07-25 13:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time an annulment is allowed is in the case of being married under false pretense. If you or your spouse lied to one another under fraudulent means then you can get an annulment. Let's say that you are gay and your spouse had no clue whatsoever. If he finds out after you are married then the judge will grant an annulment. Most annulments are granted when one discovers something after the marriage that if they had known before the marriage they would not have went through with the wedding.
2006-07-25 13:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by kristin747 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to immediately talk to your husband and get into therapy.
I find it odd that you loved someone enough to pledge to be with them forever just months ago and now you think you have found yourself sexually unhappy.
You need some real counseling, before you start acting on this.
The reason I say this is I wonder if you tend to act on feelings and emotion with out getting to the root causes of things. If you acted rashly in getting married, don't act rashly by running away.
A good counselor can help you realize what is going on and from now on you can spend some time planning the moves you make in your life, not just reacting.
2006-07-25 13:37:59 · answer #4 · answered by ellieannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too late for an annulment, it's for a couple of months. You can have a heart to heart talk with our spouse, and get the things out in the open so you can get a divorce for both your sakes. You should make sure that there's no way for your marriage to work out before this step is made.
2006-07-25 13:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup.. you're disturbed allright.
Go ahead wreck another marriage, break your vows and blame your genes. That's what the current gay agenda is.
But oh no... we can't say anything against that kind of disgusting behavior because that would be homo-freegin-phobic.
2006-07-25 13:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to file for divorce
2006-07-25 13:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋