Well, I have been seeing this guy for about a year and a 1/2 and know that he has a girlfriend. Well, I wrote him a letter some months ago and she found it. She called me last night to ask some questions and we got disconnected. When she calls again, should I tell her the truth or just milk her ego and let her believe that we are just friends?
2006-07-25 06:27:37 · 18 answers · asked by Felicia P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should tell her the truth, because I would want to know the truth, and I bet if you were in her shoes, you wouldn't want someone to "milk your ego". But then again, I think what you really should do is get out of that relationship. He doesn't belong to you, he is cheating on her, and putting your importance on the back burner. I would want to be #1 in my man's life. Good luck with that, I hope it all come back to blow up in your face.
2006-07-25 06:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends if you want to keep seeing him yes tell her ur friends. if not tell her the truth and get prepared to let him go because hes probably going to leave you ( why would you do this anywayz be with a man a year 1/2 if you aint serious?)
2006-07-25 06:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by luby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been where you are. It was about six years ago. I was the other woman and his wife found out. She called me and I wanted to talk to her. I wanted to come clean. We had a good talk and I came out wiser. From that day on, I was never the other woman. I am the woman. You deserve better. Don't sale yourself short. Good luck.
2006-07-25 06:36:24 · answer #3 · answered by all4u69_2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and tell her the truth and get it all out in the open. Don't burn both ends of the candles. Don't expect her to be nice and be sure and stand up for yourself.
2006-07-25 06:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the truth the truth always comes out in the end its better coming from you
2006-07-25 06:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by clairebtint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this were to happen to me ( which I wouldn't date someone who was in a relationship) I would tell her the truth, weather she belives you or not.
2006-07-25 06:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Milk her ego...... Seriously. I mean, if you've been with her man for that long now, and she is clueless...well..... I would deny it to the end, stick to your story..
Good luck!
2006-07-25 06:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the situation that you'd want your lover to be in. If you want her to know and have him be severely reamed up the a$$, then tell her. But if you want her to think that you're just friends, then tell her that.
2006-07-25 06:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by Rock Goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you bother with someone who could tell you or do to you the same thing .ignore her when you tell her she will hate you anyways . Who knows maybe she is so bothering that her boyfriend goes with you instead.
2006-07-25 06:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what happened...let him handle his business. tell the girlfriend to ask her boyfriend, or don't answer the phone
2006-07-25 06:31:34 · answer #10 · answered by Marlin Darlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋