I had a misscariage with him when i was 3 mon.pregnant and it was hard for me. we went through something trumatic together.we eventualy got through it and started seeing other people. i guess cause when we would be together we always felt sad cause of the loss of the baby. I ended up meeting someone who I felt really loved me and still does.but my ex is still single and I cant get him out of my head. ( my husband went to a psycic once and she told him that there is somone who thinks about me everyday and this person is waiting for us to get a divorce so he can step in)Who else could it be but my ex!
2006-07-25 06:26:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my husbands sister is a psycic and she wanted to try out some of her "talents" on him,
2006-07-25 06:41:16 · update #1
You are suffering from "unresolved feelings". Your Ex and you, had began a journey. One day it was the 2 of you and 1 on the way. The next thing you know, you miscarried and apparently neither of you grieved this loss, but chose to divide, so as not have to deal with those terrible feelings you both were sharing. When we close a door in life on things we don't want to face, we are forced to eventually reopen that door and deal with those feelings. This is what you are doing. The idea that you didn't live thru this emotionally, makes me Wonder, if the two of you shouldn't of stayed together. Usually there is one person in the relationship that would of been the strength to getting the other one thru such a devastating time. You both sound like you handled it exact the same way and chose see other people, so you wouldn't be constantly reminded of this anguish. So, I say to you,... "grieve"!!! Allow yourself, to openly grieve your babies loss. We all handle grief in our own special way. So what ever it takes for you to move on, release this grief, so you can take your place back in today's time with your husband. It want be easy. And you know that. That's why you chose to close that door 7 years ago. Believe and have faith, everything is going to work out much better once you do this.
2006-07-25 06:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 23:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by Betty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do not believe psychic ....
you have a good husband who loves you and you have a good life .
you just need a baby, it is not your ex who you are thinking it is more that baby that you have lost.. that was a connection between you and since you do not have any other baby that is still there
just have a baby or adopt one and try to enjoy your life as much as you can with your husband... you never know what is next fro you so enjoy what you have
good luck
just a note:
A good marriage is an intimate and loving relationship which gives both partners security, friendship, companionship, support, comfort, and deep love that penetrates every aspect of life. None of this can be achieved without work and sacrifice.
Marriage may be compared to a plant that requires daily nurture, daily attention, daily care and cultivation. It will not develop of its own accord; only as effort and will are exerted will it grow and mature. For a marriage to succeed, both husband and wife must be committed to its success. They must build an enduring love relationship that is centered in the heart of their consciousness. Their relationship must be nurtured with the water of loyalty and love.
2006-07-25 06:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any body! Don't try using excuses to get out of your marriage. You need to atleast work on staying with the guy you are committed to with vows. Time takes care of all with prayer, and it wouldn't be right to leave a man who loves you and doesn't seem to be doing you wrong for someone who's life has gone on without taking the step of marriage when he had the chance. Why did your husband go to a psychic anyway, does he have any reason to doubt his marriage with you?
2006-07-25 06:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Elizabeth,
first things first, its perfectly normal that you are thinking about your ex.
interestingly, people don't forget who was with them in their SAD moments.
Just don't punish yourself, ease it out, let it go slowly. Let it take time..
And about the psycic, they are all bullshit.
Be true to yourself, be loving and keep smiling.
Gyaan Guru
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2006-07-25 06:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by Gyaan Guru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is OK to still think about your ex - after all you both had a traumatic experience together. However, these feeling should not interfere with your present relationship. The grass always looks greener on the other side.
2006-07-25 06:30:50 · answer #6 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree to u that it is very difficult to forget ur ex i am in the same situation, but i would suggest u that instead of hampering the progress of ur ex ur just stuck in that era, u have to come out of that, these pyshics are useless they always want people to come to them again and again, rather u should think of ur present husband who as accepted u the way ur, i can't say if knows about ur past or not, but still he loves u and cares about u as he even went to a psychic for u, u can be friends with ur ex and should tell him also to move on, enjoy ur life with ur husband, i assure u will not regret
2006-07-25 06:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by cc20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can forget the first love. But your married someone so be true women for you husband. Because he expecting lot of things to you. So pls forget your ex ok. Happy to live
2006-07-25 06:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by kartik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have 2 choices. Either u get him out of your head and heart 4 ever and go on with your life or you get a divorce and call him.
2006-07-25 06:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by ani2525 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should watch the movie sweet home Alabama. The movie is a lot like your story ,maybe it could help you out by watching it and even if it doesn't help you out. I taught that it was a great movie. GOOD LUCK
2006-07-25 06:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋