I work as an admin in a radio station and it seems like the well liked people are the very attractive ones. I am outgoing enough to get to know everyone but I feel like the ugly ogre at work.
2006-07-25 06:23:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I DRESS LIKE EVERYONE ELSE-which is casual-I style my hair everyday-this is not the issue.
2006-07-25 06:33:41 · update #1
If you dress nicer and tend to your appearance you will feel better about yourself. Watch "What Not To Wear" on TLC and you will start picking up tips that help.
2006-07-25 06:28:28 · answer #1 · answered by Meredith L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't judge yourself by the standards of others. Wear what looks good on you regardless of what everyone else is wearing. Head for the mall and get a make-over if it will make you feel better about yourself, or try a new hairstyle... but do it for you and not your co-workers. Continue to be outgoing and get to know everyone on a personal level. If it turns out they're all a bunch of shallow jerks who judge people solely on their looks then who needs them. Just because you work with them doesn't mean they have to become your best friends. If you can't deal with them start looking for another job. Best wishes and good luck.
2006-07-25 08:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by nimbleminx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is always someone who looks better than we do-that's not an issue. Besides obvious things that can be changed (getting fit, make-up, etc) it's really about how you feel about yourself. If you feel attractive and flirt (harmlessly), you will be surprised how much attention you will get. I worked in the office ones where the most "sought after" girl wasn't even remotely attractive, but she was a great flirt and everyone just loved being around her!
2006-07-25 07:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by Rowena D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is the case, you are hanging around some shallow people. Try to initiate the convos and don't expect them to come to you. Don't feel too down though :/ noone wants that :( .. But NEVER show that you are sad/moody/angry/down because then for sure noone will want to be around you. Try to be happy outgoing and if all else fails try to hang around some new people once in a while!
2006-07-25 06:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by kirbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 23:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is what i want you to do.lock your self in a bathroom,and dance,yell scream anything that brings joy for 1 min.follow your heart
2006-07-25 06:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by pompomgirl292 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋