I have also noticed him talking to other girls many times.....what do I do????
2006-07-25 06:11:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Should you tell his parents are you kidding me?Is he a child?Girl id be slapping the dog shitt outta him!You better take matters into your own hands,instead of telling his parents, like he is going to care what they say,get real.Don't sit back and just wait till he finally has a affair if he hasn't already do something about it mean business with him,do not tolerate any such behavior like that.You have feelings and he is your husband your doing the right thing and he needs too to!!You better have sit down with him and be more stern instead of acting like nothing is wrong or not paying any attention to what you are seeing him do by telling his parents that will get you no where with him,only thing you will do is cause family problems and make him mad and he will think u think he is a child and so on and so on and he will probably get worse .You don't need his parents all you need is a good strong back bone..good luck and god bless!!
2006-07-25 06:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by blondie 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why would you tell his parents? How old are you?
I believe you have a confidence problem. First you have to do a lot of work to make yourself feel good about yourself. Husbands talk to many women during a day's time, it doesn't mean he is dating them or liking them.
2006-07-25 13:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by moonsister_98 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him. What was he doing with these other women and do you trust him. Do you have guy friends? If so do you allow him lady friends. I have a couple friends that are ladies both in dire need of help. One is married and her family is forced to sell their house and move due to financial problems. The other is a single mother and lost her house and all her possesions in a fire. My wife gets angry when I'm talking to them and comforting them over the phone. I think that's an over reaction. Don't over react confront him talk to him and find out what the deal is.
2006-07-25 13:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband has the right to talk and socialize with other women! You don't OWN him! It may be time for you to get some help with your jealousy issues.
Now if you know he is having an affair, then that is different, but if you just see him around women and talking to them and that makes you jealous, then it is time you grew up and found a sollution to YOUR problem.
2006-07-25 13:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by llywarch_dindaethwy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh telling Momma and Daddy on him will set him straight, right?? WRONG! If your husband is seeing other women for emotional and sexual relationships then you need to get your azz out of that marriage quickly! If he is just talking to a gal, who cares?? Just seeing your husband with another woman does not seal the deal that he is cheating....is she a co worker?? A friend???
Really, get a grip and get the truth!
2006-07-25 13:15:59 · answer #5 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him on the situation right away. Betrayal is a horrible feeling and one that can cause you to act irrationally at times, but I would leave his parents out of it until the two of you have talked it through and decided what you are going to do about it. Good luck.
2006-07-25 13:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by RIVER 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get his parents involved. No matter what the reason, they will side with their son. You will not win.
Talk with your husband. Communicate with him your questions and concerns but do it in a nice way. Do not yell or corner him. Speak like adults. If he does not answer, then get into marriage therapy together and work it out. Good Luck.
2006-07-25 13:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by eyematch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but i think u were way to young to get married to this guy if the first thought that came to ur mind after seeing him with other women was should i tell his parents y dont u confront him when u see all this going on is it something missing 4rm ur question well all i can say is best of luck to ya
2006-07-25 13:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you tell his parents? Are you 15 or something?
Be an adult and handle the situation yourself. Confront him. Let him know what you saw and see how he reacts. Ask for his explanation to his whereabouts.
If he reacts in a way that shows his disrespect towards you, leave.
2006-07-25 13:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by sglesxyldy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his parents think he can do no wrong, and doesnt like you I could understand the wanting to tell them. But it really wont do any good, he will still have been cheating, and still with these other girls! Move on, and leave him in the dust! :)
2006-07-25 13:19:08 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋