i jus post a question an hr ago(my period was late for about 2 weeks, im 18.. pls help me?)
actually im not sure whether im pregnent a not. frankly i do wish to hv a baby, but my bf reali disapoint me. he maybe too young(19) n childish. He is a NS man now, he treated me quite badly recently, maybe he hated me. but i really love him alot, n i know thats stupid.
A fews days ago, i took a kit test show negative, n i go do a X-ray. i know X-ray will affect e baby quite badly rite? Im veri worry that if i reali pregnent. wad will happen to my baby??
Im also worry for my future. I will take e responsible for my baby if i reali get pregnent. Of course i hope my bf will support me along but he keep avoiding me n being so cruel. Im veri sad about this.. I lied to him that i pregnent before but he said we r jus too young for baby n asked me to abort it. Of cos i cried when hearing this. As that time i told him i wont go for abortion. But truely he irresponsible. im suffering alot pls help
2006-07-25 06:05:00 · 13 answers · asked by wination 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Sweetie, go to Planned Parenthood and find out if you are pregnant.
You can't do ANYTHING until you KNOW...
You are finding out why people tell you your are TOO YOUNG to be having sex. You can't support a baby on your own so you should NOT be having sex-period.
He is what he is and YOU picked HIM. Hopefully you will NOT be pregnant, you will break up with this BOY and you will get an education before trying to play "relationship" again.
2006-07-25 06:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by R J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think first of all you should go and see a doctor to confirm if you are pregnant. This is the most important things to do at the moment.
If the doctor confirm that you are pregnant, every lady wants their bf to be supportive and take care of them. What your bf said is very irresponsible, as you are killing a innocent baby. Don't forget the baby is your own flesh and blood. So will u feel guilty by going for the abortion?
Well, does your family know about your problem? In any case, I think your family should be giving u all the morale support. I think you need to tell him on your decision if you want to keep the baby. If your bf don't support your decision, he is not fit to be the father of this child. Don't you think so?
2006-07-25 15:04:13 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be confused. Just do the right thing. You need a caring adult female maybe an aunt whom you can trust if you are afraid to tell your mum, to help you do the right thing. Forget your boyfriend. He is cruel not because he is bad, but because he is scared and immature. He cannot help you now. This is why young people should not be involved in sex. He is just a boy and though he must be responsible for what he did, he will not help you. Forget him if you want to have a happy life. You need help but you will be ok. You don't be confused or sad. Just do the right thing. Talk to mature females. They will understand and help you.
2006-07-27 06:52:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chick before you get your self in trouble i suggest u know for sure weather u pregnant or not and i guess that if he really loves he would support u and be responsibile for his actions. if you not pregnant thank god and move on with your life because if this is how he s treating u now think bout the future!!! please note it u continue having abortions there is a chance in the future u may not be able to have any kids ! thats a fact i have a friend who has the same problem! hope this helps....i know to let go is so hard but sometimes it is necessary so suck it in and ship on out!
2006-07-25 06:23:01 · answer #4 · answered by nesta d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just drop the guy, he's a dirtbag. He's not worth being with because it will just put your life on hold. Don't do that to yourself. If you are pregnant there's plenty of single mother's out there, just make sure you get your child support. And if your not pregnant leave that guy in the dust.
2006-07-25 06:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by Sandra M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a doctor to have an ultrasound and bloodwork done to see if you are pregnant. Also, dont stay with anyone who is gonna treat you badly. It is your decision if you want to keep this baby or not.
2006-07-25 06:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by momma2jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your suffering? What about the baby? Its time to stop thinking about yourself and numb nuts (your bf) and take care of your baby. I'd start by going to the doctor.
2006-07-25 06:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by murph_ltt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a doctor to find out if you are truly pregnant then seek help. Dump the jerk of a boyfriend!
2006-07-25 06:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by red9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Planned Parenthood, they have clinics that will give you a free pregnancy test and counseling on your options.
2006-07-25 06:16:58 · answer #9 · answered by me41987 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL U SHUD OF THINK BEFORE U HAD SEX WITH, THE GUY THAT AS U SAY.. IS USING U.... AND IRRESPONSIBLE... CUDNT U JUST WAIT UNTIL U C REAL PERSON IN HIM.... MY ADVICE TO U..... IS BRAKE UP WITH HIM... ABORT THE BABY.. AND START UR LIFE AGAIN...... AND DONT RUSH TO HAVE SEX OKEY DOKEY? DONT SUFFER..... ITS LIFE WE ALL KNO ITS HARD
2006-07-25 06:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋