My ex-girlfriend will call me when she is in a relationship I don't like to talk to her what should I do?

Question

I've told my ex-girlfriend that I dated for 2 yrs that I feel better when I don't talk to her at all. Every time we talk it is for like 5 mins and the conversation is about the same sh*# its never like the talks we really had when we were together, it kills me. I end up in a bad mood for a few days and I think it just makes her feel better to know I’m willing to talk to her. Of course I still care about her a lot but I was real mad when we broke up she jumped into a new relationship right away. I don’t like the idea that she gets to still be friends with me and be in a new relationship after we were together for two yrs. She changed a lot that lead to the break. My best friend left me by my self with no one to turn to and right when I’m getting back on my feet she calls and it doesn’t help my situation. Do you think she is trying to keep me close for any future together again? Help!

Answer 1

She is punishing you for some reason...maybe she is a masochist, whatever it is...she is on a power trip and you are her vehicle. Take your power back...don't answer, change your number, don't contact he to tell her why...Nada. No contact, save yourself, run from this mean girl...she doesn't want you, she just wants to torture you!

Answer 2

Make a clean break from her, she will keep calling as long as you keep answering the phone and talking to her.

Answer 3

Why do you even bother to pick up the phone!!! I think you secretly wish she would come back to you that's why you keep in touch. No one can make you miserable unless you allow them to. Move on with your life!

Answer 4

Change your number or block her calls.

Answer 5

change your number

Answer 6

get called ID, don't answer her calls...