I'm not complaining, well maybe I am. The sex with my wife is ok. Am i crazy?
2006-07-25 05:49:11 · 9 answers · asked by on2offsoultions 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Married couples get in ruts. It happens when you're really comfortable with your partner and have been together for a long time. Have you talked to her about trying different things? Maybe visiting your local sex shop and getting toys or movies to inspire you? I don't know about your wife, but I'm no mind reader. I ask my husband what would really get him going. He does the same for me.
2006-07-25 05:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by Cat 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is suppose to be the best with a spouse. But if your life search is to find the best sex then maybe marriage would have been a bad decision.
I don't believe there is anything that cannot be solved. Some woman can be dense or shy about sex like Men are to women's love for purses and shoes. Come out and tell her what she can do to make it more enjoyable for you. And maybe you have not satisified her to the ultimate so the sex is just okay for her too?
2006-07-25 16:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by jade11378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're SUPPOSED to have the ONLY sex you have with you wife. This then means, by all logical conclusions, that it IS the BEST you will ever have again!
Make if fun!
2006-07-25 12:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It helps but no just because your married to her doesnt mean the sex is the best ,its suppose to be but that dont usually ever happen you just got to hope for the best .thats why im a firm believer in testing the waters or sampling the milk before i ever buy the cow!!
2006-07-25 12:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats great, but most men can't and don't fulfill fantasies with their wife for embarrasment. Some men are dogs though and screw anything moving, that aint cool. It amazing how much can be gained by just talking about stuff, you dont know until you ask!
2006-07-25 12:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by DesignR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! you should be having the best sex with & only ur wife!!!
2006-07-25 12:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you're not but u need to work on it to make it the best sex
2006-07-25 12:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by ani2525 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem lies with you too....its YOUR fault if you don't communicate to her, and show her and tell her what feels good.............geez..........communication 101 here................
2006-07-25 12:53:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YOU ARE.
2006-07-25 12:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by ANGEL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋