My man is great in bed but doesn't eat at the Y. Only if I nag, so I don't. I thought all guys liked to lick it. I don't have any problems, you know, and when he does do it, he says he loves it...and it seems obvious he does because he is sooo good at it! What could keep him from it? Laziness? I love to perform oral on him but feel like I should abstain til I get what I want.
2006-07-25 05:11:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe it's because of the membership fees.
2006-07-25 05:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jookemgood 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him why. At least then you will have something to work with. Maybe he would like it smooth or if it is already, maybe he wants the growth back. There are many diff. reasons why he may not want to go there. Not everyone enjoys giving, but then again, not everyone enjoys receiving. After you have spoken to him about what you can do to make the experience more enjoyable for him, you can then take the steps. There are a lot of products that give it flavor or a tingle...maybe that would help. Good luck to you!
2006-07-25 05:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by candispassion.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's look at the obvious answer first. Are you well trimmed down there? If you've been with him for a while then you should know what his preferences are. If you know he likes it shorn, then get a Brazilian bikini wax.
Let's just say then, that you are trimmed down there according to his liking. What I suggest you do then in bring in some confections into the bedroom--honey, syrup, or whip cream. Bring it in without his knowing. Say you're using whip cream. First apply it to your upper areas, like your neck. And do to his. Then work your way down, as you work your way down his body. Finally, whip up his you-know-what and suck him. Then do it on yours; he can't refuse.
I hope the above helps to spice things up. But if you want to get down to the nitty-gritty, you two are not communicating with each other. The fact that you have to nag him is not a good sign. Instead of nagging him, just ask him why and what would entice him to do it more often, even if you have to reward him for his service. For all you know he's holding out himself until you go down on him.
2006-07-25 05:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys like to, so I have heard, but I have never come across one who didn't! Thank goodness. Just talk to him and tell him how you feel. Straight up ask him, do you like to eat or not. If he says its not really his thing, don't ask him again. In lovemaking, you don't want anyone to be doing things that you know they don't enjoy. If you love him and really enjoy doing him, continue to please him. Don't hold back and play selfish love games. You can't help what you are into. Has any other man been the same way towards your Y? If not, maybe it just ain't his thing. Every Scorpio I know is selfish in a way.
2006-07-25 05:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by Poetess_4U 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My first thought is do you keep the Y clean? Do you take a really long time to finish? Jaw can get sore at times. Present it to him as a special treat. No undies at a surprising moment is alot of fun. Compliment his abilities while in he's munching. IM me if you'd like to continue...
2006-07-25 05:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by xsentrick1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love to eat Y with my woman even if she didn't give me oral sex. I always enjoy looking at it and eat it and until she tells to stop. knowing that she has it every time.. Even if my touge feel tired but I keep it going becasue I do love her and I remember that time she was my girfirend and i ask if i can eat her she said sure and I did and she had it and then she said you are my.. she said most guys can't finished it. but you did, my wife couldn't finish for me but didn't matter I enjoy doing to her. man she very wet and I enjoy it alot.
smiling. all i can say is that he will not want to do anymore or tell him why your togne tired??? can't do anymore??? huh???? Maybe we can get you see dr. make your togne bigger like GENE Simmon from KISS haha.
2006-07-25 05:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking him if he will if you guys 69. Or buy some of the flavored body stuff from the "adult stores" My husband loves to do it with that.
Good luck!
2006-07-25 05:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love making should be about pleasing your mate. It seems like he is only considering his pleasure. Talk about it with him and find out what he would like to have you try with him and then talk about how you two can have mutual enjoyment without resentment.
Good Luck to You and God Bless!!
2006-07-25 05:14:26 · answer #8 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm... can't imagine! I think you should keep asking him. Sounds like open communication is the best solution here.
Good luck, and good eating (and receiving!).
2006-07-25 05:15:24 · answer #9 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some guys just don't like to do it and you can't take it out on him if he doesn't. For me I was hooked after the first time
2006-07-25 05:18:36 · answer #10 · answered by TexasBoy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋