check it out. I encouraged my first boyfriend(after three years in our relationship) to enroll in a gym and he left me for a girl he met there. I said that will not happen all the time therefore when my next boyfriend (of one year) enrolled in a gym I supported him and he left me for a girl he met there too. I moved on and now have another relationship that has been going for almost 2 years now and he enrolled in the gym yesterday..... advice please.
2006-07-25 04:51:27 · 9 answers · asked by sweet lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WOW!! You have horrible luck with guys that enroll in gyms....you should enroll with them, I'm not saying that that will stop them from meeting someone else but it may put a slight damper on things....or stay away from guys that first join gyms!!!!
Talk about getting a complex......I would feel freaked out too!
The sad thing is that you can never stop someone from potentially meeting someone new, no matter how much you would like to think that....you just have to hope that they love you enough to want to stay with you, I'm insecure and it's tough to not worry but when you think about it...there's really nothing you can do about it. It's THEIR loss if they choose someone else.....you sound like a very supportive girlfriend and it's too bad that these guys don't realize how good they have it with you.
Best of luck to you and join the gym WITH him, heck, you never know....maybe YOU'LL meet someone new!!!!! ha ha ha
2006-07-25 05:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 12⤊ 2⤋
Why dont you enrolled in the same Gym and even if he does end up going with a girl from the gym so what ?? you are alive ! there is alot more fishes in the sea
2006-07-25 11:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run! No, if you dont' already go to the gym you can enroll. However, if this guy wants to leave he can meet someone anywhere not just at the gym.
2006-07-25 11:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lilly M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better get to the gym and work out with him. Lets face it, if they are at the gym with you then they won't meet anyone else. If they are there alone, it is only a matter of time. Your other option is to send them to a men only gym.
2006-07-25 11:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the gym
2006-07-25 11:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by bonzo the tap dancing chimp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the gym with him
2006-07-25 11:56:59 · answer #6 · answered by middle aged and love it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enroll and go with him.
2006-07-25 11:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join gym. PRONTO!
2006-07-25 11:55:30 · answer #8 · answered by Sage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and work out with him
2006-07-25 11:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by Bees Knees 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋