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I'm with a guy who is conservative in every sense of the word... whereas I am pretty unconventional. We're like Dharma & Greg over here! In the bedroom it's the same -- I am pretty much up for anything -- I love *really* rough sex, and even threesomes. He's pretty standard (not that he isn't good, it's just... well, the same). Any ideas? He refuses to even watch porn with me! LOL

2006-07-25 04:45:50 · 13 answers · asked by Bunny*Run 4 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

13 answers

you should try thunder_kok

2006-07-25 04:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by thunder_kok 3 · 0 0

Hmmm, try picking up the book, screw the roses, send me the thorns.

Its a great book on beginning BDSM . . . I know it helped open up My rather vanilla wife to some new ideas.

The other option is to take charge in the bedroom. I know thats the exact opposite of what you want to do. But just sweetly tell him that you'd like to try something new. Tie him down, and take him the way you want to be taken.

You might also try to sit down with him and just talk with him openly about sex. What he feels like it should be, where he got the ideas from. Its really really difficult to get across to a guy that its okay to smack the bejesus out of you and call you names in bed. That took a very special woman to bring it out of Me. She would come from repeated slaps to the face. Really opened My eyes.

Feel free to contact me off of here for more ideas and tips and suggestions.

2006-07-25 11:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0 0

Jeez, if you figure it out, let me know. My guy is very conservative also. He always wants to "make love" and I'm like hey, sometimes I just need to be f**ked! Good luck to you. I've tried everything, and I've just about given up and resigned myself to a lifetime of predictable sex.

2006-07-25 11:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by art-nerd 3 · 0 0

Get a wilder guy like me to spice up your sex life a little bit.

2006-07-25 18:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Bedroom Celebrity 3 · 0 0

Drugs.

2006-07-25 11:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by scott j 3 · 0 0

hey bunny that pretty funny,

maybe he wants you all to himself

rather than share you with the boy next door

or the pool boy !

2006-07-25 11:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by rottentothecore 5 · 0 0

This may be the challenge that you find exciting with him...give it alittle more experience and he will take you to your limits.

2006-07-25 11:50:38 · answer #7 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0 0

slip him a mickey and then when he wakes up tied to the bed he wont have any choice but to comply (works for all my dates)

2006-07-25 11:49:12 · answer #8 · answered by anthonydavidpirtle 3 · 0 0

try to explain yourself to him,tell him that sometimes you need to let loose,but at the same time don't forget to think about he feels!

2006-07-25 11:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jenifer D 2 · 0 0

lead him , ask" you wanna try something fun today ?and then go on to show him what you want. i am sure he will like it and rock your boat the way you want it.

2006-07-25 11:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by yankee23 1 · 0 0

just stick your pinky up his butt while you're giving him head

2006-07-25 11:48:57 · answer #11 · answered by list 3 · 0 0

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