i need help. Today im goin to the movies with my boyfriend and were gonna kiss...im so afraid.
i know how to kiss and everything..but im terrified if i do somthing wron. What if my breath doesnt smell good, what if im going to fast, what if im going to slow, what if my lips are dry, what if my lips are to wet!
please help me..one time were about to kiss and i stopped cuz i was scared of all these things!
PLEASE HELP
2006-07-25 04:35:26 · 22 answers · asked by YEAH! 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I disagree with some of the people on here...I don't think that you are "not ready" just because you are nervous. It's just a big step.
As for what to do, my advice would be to brush your teeth well before (which you should do every day anyway!) lol. Flossing has also been proven to help the breath. I use Binaca spray and it works wonders. Also, the Listerine strips or something like that.
When it comes to that point, I would lick your lips maybe once or so (but not so they are all slobbery!) As for the rest, let HIM do the work. Once he makes a move, then you will kind of just go with it. Kissing is not supposed to be a scary thing...it's supposed to be a good feeling with a close individual. So whatever you do, just relax!! If you keep worrying about it, it is going to seem like a HUGE deal and you'll freak out! But if you just take a deep breath and realize that pretty much everyone in the world kisses and you are not alone, you will feel less stressed. And remember this...once you take the first big step (the first kiss), then it will get easier and will be more enjoyable!
GOOD LUCK SWEETIE!!
2006-07-25 06:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by kelikristina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know how to kiss you have nothing to worry about. If your breath doesn't smell good use brush and use mouthwash before your date and have some mints, gum, and Listerine Strips in your purse, Just be patient and wait for him to kiss you, kiss him how you normally kiss keeping it soft and smooth, if your lips are dry add lip gloss and place a napkin between your lips so they won't be too wet after the napkin trick is done smear your lips together a little so the lip gloss can reach every part of your lips. Calm your nerves down by doing what you do when you're nervous. Let him lead and go along with the flow, doing what he is doing but in opposite strokes, don't wanna get toungue tied (LOL) Good Luck!
2006-07-25 11:44:05 · answer #2 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I"m sure your boyfriend is feeling the same way. Just go with the flow. If your worried about your breath go to the store and get some stuff to spray in your mouth! Worrying about your lips being dry? Lick them before kissing, or wear lip gloss. A girls lips are never too wet unless they r druling. Kiss slow, it's more romantic. If you go fast, you might roll out of the seat and start having sex and get kicked out (happened to me before, you do not wanna go there)
Just be yourself while kissing!
2006-07-25 14:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before leaving the house be sure to brush your teetyh and use mouth wash! Dont eat anything with onions or peppers or spicy foods! It will stay on your breath forever! God no garli either!!! Take a few of those cinnamon strips that u can place on your tongue and they melt- listerine strips- and before going in to movie pop one in your moth! it melts within 20 seconds! The only real rule to kissing is relax! Totoally relax your heart- mind and body and just go with it! Let yourself feel his kiss and follow him thru it! U might try two things new that would really catch his attention! Whikle kissing suck his lower lip and nibble on it a little! Some guys totally love that! Be gentle though!!!! Good luck to u and like I said be totaly natural and it will go perfectly!!!
2006-07-25 13:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't even matter if you know how to kiss or not-he won't mind. Just let it happen naturally, don't force anything. It's a stressful thing, I know, but try to relax. Once you do kiss it will be like "what was I all worried about?" Just take it easy and enjoy your date! And if your worried about your breath, just be sure your teeth are brushed and you have mints. Good Luck Girl!!!
2006-07-25 11:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by Alison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry I was scared just like you. Just make a move and everything will be fine. Another thing if you both eat popcorn you will both have the same breath, so he wouldn't have a clue if yur breath stunk. And he feels the same way, trust me. And I'm sure when you to kiss you will see sparks. Good Luck.
2006-07-25 11:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it one step at a time. Bring breathe pocketstrips. They really work trust me. Just slip one right in your mouthe before you kiss and he will keep coming back for more. (Kisses ofcousre)
2006-07-25 11:41:03 · answer #7 · answered by Midnight Moolight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are that nervous and upset at the prospect of kissing then clearly you are not ready for it.
Give your mom a kiss. If that goes well, then have confidence that you can kiss whenever you are ready.
2006-07-25 11:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything will be ok. Just go with what you are comfortable with. If it is the right time, the right person. Everything will take care of itself!
Just relax!
2006-07-25 11:45:40 · answer #9 · answered by icey_76431 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh i remember being your age, the worst thing you can do its worry about it as you will work yourself into a frazzle and probably end up embarresing yourself try and keep calm and take things as they come. brush your teeth before you go and chew some gum then you can go wrong.
2006-07-25 11:41:10 · answer #10 · answered by dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋