Last night My brother saw me naked so then he took off his cloths so we were both naked. What should I do about it? I'm 14 and hes only 13 and he knows how to jack off and he wanted me to help do it.. What should i do?
2006-07-25 04:34:37 · 32 answers · asked by sexystaci100 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
just let it go but if he does it again tell someone
2006-07-25 04:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 7⤋
What do you mean what should you do? Tell him to 'Get a life.' He's a pervert to want to do it with his sister. I'm 13, so he's immature. I wouldn't do it with my 12, 13, or 14 year old cousin. But honestly, what do you mean what should you do? If some perv on here told you to 'do it' with him, would you? I honeslty think you already knew the answer. You knew that masturbating with him would be a sin because he's your own blood. He has your DNA! For God's sake... HE'S YOUR BROTHER! Curiosity killed the cat. In this case, your brother is the cat. Use the bathroom next time. Lock it. Do your business.
As he was taking off his clothes, what were you doing? Just standing there in shock? RUN! He's probably seen a butt before (not to be rude), but your butt is less revealing than the rest of you.
You're developing, it happens & you don't want to reveal yourself.
Don't be ashamed. It wasn't all your fault. It was all your perverted brother's fault.
If you feel uncomfortable like that again with your brother, you should tell the parent who understands better & give smaller punishments. DON'T tell on him now because he knew what he did wrong. He's old enough to know. He'll punish himself after realizing what happened. But, if you tell now, he might honestly try to rape you or something. Sorry, but you can't trust him now...
Hope I wasn't too mean & nasty, but it's true. Tell him he'll learn as he gets older. You have the right to be uncomfortable. STAY AWAY, but don't act like it or your parents will question...
2006-07-25 05:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by mani boo/poo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you realize that this is considered sexual abuse, is illegal and social services or family services can remove one of you from your home and charge you, your brother, and/or your parents with a crime if they find out who you are?
Growing up with brothers and sisters in the same house, it is hard to avoid occasional accidental sightings of each other undressed. When this happens, the undressed one should immediately cover themselves and the other should turn their eyes. These accidents should never turn into sexual encounters which you will be ashamed of for the rest of your life. As brother and sister, you should respect and protect each other and respect and protect each other's privacy.
When you get older, it will be fun to remember and laugh with others about how one of you accidentally walked in on the other one in the bathroom and the shocked reaction you both had. It will not be fun to not be able to look each other in the eye because it turned into a nasty little secret that you have to keep between yourselves.
Buy your brother a girly magazine and give him some alone time in the bathroom or some place. Tell him that he will be enjoying sex with girls soon enough so that he doesn't have to turn it into something nasty and wrong with a sister who he is supposed to protect. Also make sure that he has easy access to condoms.
2006-07-25 05:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize that you are brother and sister and in the eyes of GOD thats not right. You need to discuss this incident with your parents cause you and your brother might need a little bit of counseling. But until that happens make sure you lock the door when you are going to be naked and don't go into the room when he is.
2006-07-25 05:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay then! I suggest you totally stay away from little brother especially when u are naked! Its nlormal to be curious about your bodies BUT not incest - not sleeping with flesh and blood! Thats totally discusting and nasty!!!! Let him know he will have to do that all on his own! Put a small lock on your door if u have too so u have privacy to get dressed without him walking in on you!
2006-07-25 06:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let your parents know what happened and let them deal with the situation because there is something wrong with your brother.
No brother should ever get naked and ask his sister to help him masturbate. Since he's still going through puberty, it's normal for him to get curious about certain things but not with family!
2006-07-25 04:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey lady, do you know what you are doing? This is incest! And in the wrong situatiuon.
Do you know that your brother can be charged in court for inappropriate behaviour? The authorities can even send him to reformative school.
Can you behave lke an elder sister? Can you tell him to get lost? From what you have written, you seem very undecisive. For him to go into your room and see you naked and he wanting you to masterbate him shows you just do not know what to do.
You better keep away from him. This is not an appropriate behaviour. You should even tell your parents before things get out of hand.
Sheesh...........!
2006-07-25 04:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by citylegend 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for siblings to have curiosity about sex, and how their bodies look. Helping each other to understand your sexuality and your feelings is a good part of life. Have a quiet talk with your brother about how you feel and how creepy it would be to to get pregnant with a sibling. Let him share his own fears and misunderstandings about these issues, then get some proper answers from books, your parents, the school or your Doctor.
Obviously you both need to grow up.
2006-07-25 04:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What did you do last night? I know it will be hard, but you need to talk to your parents about it. But i think you might have to. He is experimenting and he doesnt reliaze at the moment that you are his sister. To him you are a female and thats all he wants to give him sexual pleasure. Do not go through with it. Talk to him if you can, and be very careful when you are changing and locking your doors. Again, talk to him, and if he is persistant then talk to your mother about it. You will feel uncomfortable with the whole situation, even just being near him. You might need to talk to someone about the situation, because it might leave you feeling very "odd" ...email me if you wanna talk. Take care and best wishes!
2006-07-25 04:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT. This may turn to something more serious so if he again sees u naked by accident don't let him take off his clothes. i personally prefer that u tell ur parents, if u're too shy seek help from a teacher
2006-07-25 04:42:00 · answer #10 · answered by Alien (Tribute to Sting!) 3 · 8⤊ 0⤋
*throws up*
Um, ew. Your brother is seriously perverted. Tell your parents!!!! You should also suggest that maybe he goes to a shrink, because that is not normal.
And if he ever has kids...well, keep an eye out for them and make sure he never does that to them!
2006-07-25 06:49:44 · answer #11 · answered by Sarcasm Queen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋