I am getting married next july and have started to look at dresses. My fiance hates ball gown and other puffy/fluffy styles. I found a dress that i am in love with and it is puffy. Shoudl i not get it becuase he may not like it? I know this is a stupid question because its really about personal taste... but what would you do ladies?
2006-07-25 04:32:01 · 14 answers · asked by KLL 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
SORRY I'M A MAN
BUT IN MY OPION THIS IS YOUR DAY THE DAY YOU HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR FROM BACK WHEN YOU WERE A LITTLE GIRL CHOOSE AND WEAR THE DRESS YOU WANT TO BE MARRIED IN
AND IF HE DOSE NT LIKE IT THAT'S JUST TOO BAD AFTER ALL, ALL HE HAS TO DO IS PUT ON A TUX AND SHOW UP .YOUR THE ONE THAT WILL SPEND THE WHOLE DAY GETTING READY AND PUTTING ON MAKEUP TO LOOK BEAUTIFUL FOR HIM .LET HIM KNOW THIS IS THE DRESS YOU WANT TO BE MARRIED IN AND HE WILL JUST HAVE TO ACCEPT IT .TALK IT OVER WITH HIM AND LET HIM KNOW HOW MUCH THIS MEANS TO YOU . HES NOT THE ONE WEARING THE DRESS YOU ARE AND YOUR WEDDING DAY IS A MEMORIES FOR THE BOTH OF YOU NOT JUST HIM
2006-07-25 04:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Congratulations (I too am engaged and it's exciting!)
He may hate that style of dress, but has he ever seen it on you, as HIS BRIDE, with a look a love in your eyes JUST FOR HIM, as you glide toward him on your wedding day, to vow to be with him forever come what may? ...HE WON'T THINK but one thing "YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL" and the dress style is not going cross his mind unless it's that he never knew it could look so good on a woman.
I say this because, my fiance hates long-sleeved wedding dresses and yet I've seen a rare few that are so gorgeous it made me think maybe I should forget what he thinks and do what I want. But first I have to try them on, and if I fall in love with a dress, long-sleeve or no, I am getting it! Because it's one day and if it flatters my figure, makes me happy and is what I love, then I will look beautiful in it and the whole idea is to look 100% your best right?
2006-07-25 11:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your day, so you should be able to wear whatever you want, but then again, this day will start your new life together, and you want both of you to be happy. So maybe look at other dreses (you have plenty of time). I am sure you will find a dress that is even prettier that you will both love.
here are some dresses that i have found that i like.
http://www.brides.com/fashion/dresses/gallery/runway/detail/122355?ff=Bride&f=Wedding+Gown+Designer%3APriscilla+of+Boston>ab=Runway
I love this one:
http://www.bridalonlinestore.com/store/Haylee.asp
This one is even prettier, it has style and isn't puffy at all...LOL
http://www.bridalonlinestore.com/store/Chloe.asp
well good luck!
2006-07-25 12:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by kdancergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your big day and you get one day to shine. Do what makes you happy and makes you feel beautiful, cause hopefully your wedding will only hapen once. Don't forget, it's YOUR wedding day. You don't want to regret it later on that you should have gotten a big puffy white dress.
2006-07-25 11:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by Nat the Brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, this is your day just as much as his. You (like most girls) have most likely been dreaming of this since you were 5. If you like a dress you should get it. You are wearing it not him and do you want to look back at your wedding photos and hate what you are wearing?
2006-07-25 11:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get whatever dress you want & will feel beautiful in. once he sees you walking down the aisle he won't notice the dress anyway, all he'll be thinking about is how beautiful his soon to be bride looks! trust me, that's what my husband told me when i asked what he thought of my dress (that was custom-made for me). turns out he liked it but he really couldn't care less about the dress, he just cared about the fact that we were getting married.
2006-07-25 12:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by ms v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would take the dress. It's your day and you should wear what you want.
2006-07-25 11:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by dreamer456 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get whatever you want...Anything you put on will make you absolutely beautiful ! It's your day as much as his, most likely he really has no preference, besides the fact he wants what makes you happy!
2006-07-25 11:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by Lipitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't get the dress you love, you will regret it.
Your fiancee might change his mind once he actually sees you in the dress. Either way, it's your choice, not his.
2006-07-25 11:37:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your weeding as well...i'd say go for the puffy one...but if i were you, i'd probably try to find a less puffy one that i'd also like...
2006-07-25 11:37:02 · answer #10 · answered by daydreamer23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋