I have break with my boyfriend one month ago. But i still love him alot , but he seem to avoid me totally. I take 3 kit tests but all negative. I took 1 today but oso negative.
I have told my mum what is goin between me n my boyfriend. He is too young and too childish. He is also cruel to me but yet I still love him a lot. We have our last sexually intercourse at 17 to 19 june. He did shot inside that time is jus a few days after my last period.. Of course.. Dun have any protection.. Pls help me.. Am i pregnent?
2006-07-25 04:31:17 · 14 answers · asked by wination 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
go to the doctor (or planned parenthood) and get a test done
2006-07-25 04:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lindsey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope: not preggers
"a few days" is subjective, but you were likely outside your fertile window
if you're not testing positive by now (assuming proper use of an EPT or equivalent "home pregnancy test"), you're definitely not pregnant; those kits are both sensitive and reliable.
as far as reliability of the home tests, all the hospitals and clinics around here rely on them -- but they charge $60-100 to perform the EXACT SAME test you could have performed in the privacy of your own bathroom for a few bucks and a visit to Wal-Mart.
If you're REALLY LUCKY, he's shooting blanks and you'll never have to suffer the indignity of being his breeding machine. If we're REALLY LUCKY, he won't pass along his abusive genes to the next generation with you or anyone else.
Grow up, girl: there are decent guys out there -- and they can bone like nobody's business, but they won't treat you like trash or make you feel like a whore just because you're sexing with them.
2006-07-25 04:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by wireflight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please see a doctor to confirm if you are pregnant. The consequence of such behaviour is that you can get pregnant without any mental preparation. As a guy I think you bf is not rationale and logic enough in handlng this type of situation.
Normally if guys dun want their gf to get pregnant they will normally have some precaution. Hope your family members can give you the morale support. At this moment, you have to be brave and face all challenges that may lies ahead
2006-07-25 22:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 18 too and i had to take 4 test before i found out it was a positive. i wasnt sure so i went to the health dept. iam 9 days late from my period and it finnally showed that i was pregnant. depending on when you ovulate which in most woman are after your period you could have gotten pregnant bc i got pregnant 2 weeks after my last period. it's best to go to a dr. or local health dept. tell them your situation and why you think you could be and they can give you a blood test, bc the pregnancy hormone shows up 1st in your blood. good luck with everything.
2006-07-25 05:18:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kreese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your tests keep coming up negative, then you're probably not pregnant. Go to the doctor just to make sure. Don't keep sleeping with him so you can become pregnant either. My guess is that if he is 18 and childish then he should NOT be a father.
2006-07-25 04:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by smileyfaceinspace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Glad to hear you talked to your mom, stress can cause a period to be late, and even different. Take another test. see a doctor or go planed parenthood.
I know its a hard thing to do, but relax. Everything will be OK! Take time for yourself before starting another relationship. You need to understand why you are drawn to someone who is "cruel" to you. You deserve better!
Keep your head up. Good Luck
2006-07-25 04:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by icey_76431 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it after all those negative tests, but its always possible. Wait another week or two and test again, and stay far away from the bf, he sounds like a bad egg.
2006-07-25 04:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by JAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might, but you'd know for sure taking a blood test. Go to the health dept or somewhere were they can help you. I really hope you are not, bc it sounds like you are really scared and dont want to.........if you are not, pls leave that stupid guy behind and next time have protected sex, if you are pg asume responsibility for you actions and get that jerk to support you and his son.
2006-07-25 05:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your tests are saying negative it could be that you have yourself so stressed out over this its messing with your system. RELAX, take another test in a few days and go from there
2006-07-25 04:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl_mandy82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No those test are pretty accurate. I would stop worrying and your period should come.
2006-07-25 04:39:57 · answer #10 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋