change things for the better? I mean the whole nine yard , new city new job just a whole new beginning. I have done it once before and it was somewhat of a success, but I'm not sure if I may just be pushing my luck. Has anyone truly done this recently, and how did it turn out? I know there is some pro's and con's to concider but truly do people still beleive in this just for the sake of improving your current situation. Or am I just being selfish and discontent .
2006-07-25 04:30:27 · 7 answers · asked by Roxy 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
If you've already done this once before, then the question you have to ask yourself is "why am I resorting to doing this again? Is there something that I'm handling wrong?" If it's your job, then maybe you need to change careers. If you don't like the people you hang out with, look for a different group of friends. I definitely believe change can really be a positive thing, so completely re-working your environment can have some really great effects. You have to watch out for the temptation to keep doing it though when things don't exactly work out the way you want. Some of the best changes come from within actually.
2006-07-25 04:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
We've done it as a family several times because of my husband's jobs. We've been married for ten years and we've moved four times. Each move meant a pay raise and/or a step up the ladder of the IT ranks. His current job is Director of IT for a rapidly growing company. For him the moves were worth it career-wise. The kids and I treated every move as an adventure. I don't think any of us would change a thing.
I don't think you should look at it as being selfish. Doing something to improve your current situation should be exciting and celebratory. Go for it! Good luck!
2006-07-25 04:42:42 · answer #2 · answered by nimbleminx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 23:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, somehow I do not agree with you. Why to change surrounding in order to change your life, even if it's for better ? You can still stay in the same surrounding and change your life. It all depends on how strong is your self-confidence. For how long will you keep changing surroundings ? Isn't it better or easier to change youself for just once and than stick on it........?
2006-07-25 04:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its very possible to create a new life in a new society with a new job. Many people with shady pasts have done, so could any one.
2006-07-25 04:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea can do it-lose out on a lot of support from friends you know-are on own for awhile but can do it-lots of love old hippie here
2006-07-25 04:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by bergice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-25 04:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by wisam z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋