my ex-girlfriend the one that brook up with me very bad she is really sick and doctors say she really in bad health sitiuation and it's dangure she is in coma now and she did really bad to me and i don't know if it's ok to go or to do not go i was sik befor and she didn't care nither come
2006-07-25 04:28:29 · 11 answers · asked by bambo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
let's not talk abut the way i spell
thanks
2006-07-25 04:39:19 · update #1
let's not talk abut the way i spell ok kimb.
thanks
2006-07-25 04:40:13 · update #2
I know she done so much bad things to you and you should go and visit and no matter what the past is past. and start new right now. My father never get a chance to tell me that he Love me and that he is sorry for not being a father to me for 35 years only see him 3 time my life. and he told me that he was sorry for treated me like that and not mad at me. He said that he deserve to die like this. I lost him Feb. 2006 and my uncle told me before he died. I just wished he called and talk to me and he didn't he made that choice.
So you should be going over there as friend and support and I know she need someone to be there to help and caring.. I don't mean you must fall in love with her no no. You already have girlfriend and she might looking for forgiveness. You should forgive her, her life is running out of time. Don't wait or you will say "I wish I was there and I wish I done something different." Just go now.
And you know who care about spelling I can't even spell too smile. Hang in there buddy and you doing ok. Just go there if she still don't want you there just go and soon or later she will need you there as a friend.
2006-07-25 04:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to be the bigger person.. even if she didn't do the same for you (that was heartless) u don't have to do the same. U never kno what might happen. What if she doesn't come out of the coma, This may be the only chance u have to see her. At least you'll kno that u cared enough to be by her side you'll be at peace with yourself. "Do to others as others do to you" U never kno who you're gonna need one day. Just because she was uncaring to you u shouldn't be that way towards her. Good Luck
2006-07-25 04:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel is right. If you feel like you need to be there then go. Just because you were sick in the past and she didn't go doesn't mean she didn't care, could be she felt you may not have wanted her there. Besides you are a different person, just cause she didn't visit you when you were sick, doesn't mean you have to do the same. You do what you feel in your heart.
Go visit her, you may regret it if somethere were to happen.
2006-07-25 04:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is someone you use to love if you want to go visit her or send flowers go for it . A nice gesture even if she doesn't apperciate it is always good for a person.
2006-07-25 04:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by Amy M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to go visit her, because if she cant hold on any longer, you lost that chance. Dont take it for granted. Go . Listen to what your intuition tells you.
2006-07-25 04:47:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not have much time...you don't want to have that kind of regret over your shoulders. When you were sick was it really serious?
2006-07-25 04:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to spell better.
2006-07-25 04:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still want a relationship with her then go, otherwise stay away.
2006-07-25 04:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by American Pride 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your heart tells you to go and visit her, pls do. Live no regrets.
2006-07-25 04:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by Dani 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what would make you feel better
2006-07-25 05:07:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋