i said i have pain during sex... ive tried lube it doesnt work. ihave sex nearly everyday with my boyfriend?

Question

ive been with him for 2 years... any other ideas on what it could be

Answer 1

Lucky you nearly everyday for two years, no wonder your sore, go and see your Practise Nurse or your Doc

Answer 2

I would strongly suggest seeing a doctor, I really would worry if you are having pain during sex and still having sex with your partner - why on earth put yourself through pain?

Pain during sex can be a LOT of things, most commonly it comes down to emotional readiness or physical readiness – in other words if you have issues with sex [if you are continuing to have sex while experiencing pain this could be an issue in itself – at very least the fear of pain will result in pain as you are less likely to relax enough to allow the penis to penetrate comfortably] or if there is not enough sex prior to penetration to insure you are relaxed, lubricated and expanded enough for penetration.

It could also be a sign of an STD or vaginal health problem – in short see a doctor and don't leave until he or she does something about it, whether it be emotional, psychological, sexual, physical or whatever else it could be, sex is supposed to be pleasurable, not painful [unless you're into that sort of thing].

Two links that may be a starting point for you;
http://www.sexwithoutpain.com
http://www.scarleteen.com/sexuality/owtowow.html

Answer 3

I would go and get an internal, it could be something wrong, I was having problems with my periods once and the doctor asked if sex was painful, he said if it was that i should have an internal. It would be good to find out what is wrong cause sex isn't supposed to hurt. if it is just painful after on the outside it is probably from the friction and too much sex, that is common

Answer 4

this hapens with my girl- combine lots of lube with a long session of foreplay you could even add in some horny goat weed tablets(health shop),both u and your boyfriend take a few about half an hour before sexual activity.i know its hard not to but take things slowly-the slower the better,try some teasing-remember keep it slow

Answer 5

Lube works- See your doctor

Answer 6

No ones fault. Your boyfriend has to circulate to the doctor and get some recommendations related to his foreskin. If he maintains to have soreness for the period of intercourse he could think of a pair of circumcision. Ask a doctor for ALL recommendations as a circumcision is extraordinarily radical action to take. even with the undeniable fact that sexual excitement for me could come first.

Answer 7

that happened to me once and it turned out to be a yeast infection, I had no other symtoms but pain during sex. But it took going to the dr to figure out what was wrong

Answer 8

is he big?? that could be the cause. try to go a bit slower or gentle for a while and see if it makes a difference. you may also be a bit sore from the frequency of it, try doing it every other day instead.

Answer 9

Maybe it's the fact that you have it everyday that it's bothering you or maybe you have a smaller body type and he is too big for you. Try once a week or even once every other week.

Answer 10

Are you the lady with the 10 foot dick strapped to her leg because I think I might have just come up with the right answer!