I found a girls number in my man's car. Should I call?

Question

I have been living with my boyfriend for 8 months now. He says the girl gave it to him, but he doesnt talk to her. I just dont believe him though...

And if i do call, what do I say?

Answer 1

I'D RING HER..
better to find out for yourself then be told by him but always wonder..
Good luck

Answer 2

I find this is tricky. When I was slightly younger I used to go through my bf's things and call the numbers. As I had gotten a little bit older I realized that wasn't exactly a mature thing to do.

He was a cheater and I allowed him to cheat on me. The reason I kept finding numbers was because he was a dog. I dropped his canine butt, and my second career as a relationship detective! I

I'd be interested in knowing how you came across the number. Were you looking for it, or did you happen upon it?

The best thing to do would be to let him know how you found it and ask him about it. If in the past he has been honest with you, then there is no reason to doubt his answer. If he has, perhaps this is the wake up call you need.

Good luck.

Answer 3

HELL YEAH .............I would ..........matter of call and tell why you are calling , tell her he said he doesnt call her ,etc : dont be rude w/ her cause you want her to open up to you .....then if he was lying to you and has talked to her or does talk w/ her or see her when he is present call her back .......if you got two phones in your house call him to the phone tell him someone has called for him but dont forget to tell the other woman what you are going to do before hand causse you want to see why he was lying to you in the first place! when he gets on the phone he will have tje shock of his life you stay on the other phone while he is on the line w/ her so that way you will hear the whole conversation .......how he talks to her ...his tone of voice when he talks to her they are all signs not only that but his reaction after most men when they are up to no good tend to get up-set and want to argue and just walk out but if he does so dont chase him out the door just let him go cause once a cheater always a cheater !but while he is on the phone and in the middle of his conversation w/ her u jump in thier conversation and say I thought u never called this woman !!!!then he will probably hear it from both of you grls I am just curious ........I would of asked him why he even accepted the number from her if hes in a realationship w/ you I hate to tell you this but most-likely something has happened or maybe still is ......and plus trust your gut feeling all of us women have that its called "a womans intuition " and it is never wrong and if you happen to find another number in the future call the number first then ask him and see if he lies to you if so prove him wrong once again

Answer 4

I've had girls give me their numbers before, and I never called them. But seriously, you won't be able to find out much by calling. Get a private investigator, or do a little sluthing and get some phone history from his cell, or just get someone to follow him around. Doesn't sound like you trust him though, that's too bad. Probably isn't worth investing much time in anyway if you don't trust him to tell you the truth.

Answer 5

Yes, call. But don't be mean. She probably doesn't know that he is seeing you. Just ask "Hello. I found this number in my boyfriend's car. Have you been speaking with him since you gave it to him?" If she says yes, confront your boyfriend. Obviously you care about him (eight months!) so it can hurt, but you need to accept and move on. If she says no, throw out the number and rejoice about having a faithful boyfriend! Good luck!

Answer 6

Unless you have more to go on, leave it alone. Trust your bf. You could always check the phone for clues (last # dialed, incoming calls if you have caller ID). But if everything is normal between your bf and you why not enjoy what you have. If you obsess about things that are not a problem then he will get tired of it and leave you.

Answer 7

I did, when I found both home and cell number. Broke up with the creep same day too. I'd call, dont' believe everything you hear, especially from someone who potentially cheated on you and is covering his own *** in protection.

Answer 8

i would call and see whats up. in the first place y wud he have kept the number and 2nd of all mayb it is the truth becuz y y he leave it in a place where u can find it. 2 b on the safe side i wud call. good luck.

Answer 9

I'd call. Tell her you're planning a suprise party for him and you found her # and wanted to know what her relationship is to him so you can plan the guest list.

If you go just start yelling she won't respond or she'll lie.

Answer 10

Call the number and find out..If he is cheating let the other chick no he was cheatin everyone...no sense being mad at her unless she knew about you.. Its hard to trust men these days..If he don't talk to her --why he still got the number?? Sorry i don't know him and i don't believe him..