Is cyber sex cheating?

Question

I met a girl on line and we started having cyber sex. Its really fun and if anything it has sparked my sex life in my marriage.

Answer 1

Are you keeping it a secret from your wife? If so, it is cheating.

Answer 2

That's nice that it's helped UR personal life. Does UR wife know? And if she doesn't then why not? If U didn't think it was cheating then U wouldn't be questioning it.

Yes cyber sex is cheating. Ur touching yourself and talking dirty to another woman. U might as well be masturbating in front of a complete stranger. If you need ideas on sex, read a dirty mag, there are some great stories in those things! Or by a collection of sexual stories. And stop cheating on UR wife she deserves better.

Answer 3

Yep its cheating.. emotionally cheating.. , ur using another means then your wife to get sexually stimulated.. and to say that its sparked ur sex life, lovely im sure your wife would love to know that her husband is suddenly being this great lover knowing that her husband is thinking he's with someone else.. or getting aroused by someone else, if its not a big deal why dont u tell her ??? HUH???????? come on chicken .. let her know that your cybering with other chicks to get all hot and heavy just to have sex with her cause your either thinking of them or aroused by them so just to get your rocks off, your using your wife as a sperm receptical.. How romantic.. huh?.. GROW UP.. your suppose to be in love with ur wife.. not messing around with other women, and when the cybering gets old then what? then phone sex thats what, ive been around the internet to know where this all leads.. you'll always need something more adventurous when that gets boring, to the point that one day your actually going to get so aroused that u'll atleast contimplate meeting up with someone that your cybering and having phone sex with cause your going to be that curious.. sure u can say no now.. but ive seen it so many times.. so many relationships ruined and so many families destroyed because "its no big deal".. Its fun for you, but i doubt your wife is going to think its fun when she finds out she's not whats sparking the sex life .. someone else is.. . So come on if its not cheating and its no big deal go tell your wife about it stop hiding it from her.. ask her if its ok.. i doubt seriously if she'll be totally fine with it..

Answer 4

If this thing is sparking up your sex life, then im guessing your bringing those images from that other woman in the bedroom. right? Yes that is cheating.

My husband broke up with his ex because of that, and if he did that to me, i would kick his *** and cut his balls off.

Answer 5

Id leave my man if he cybered with someone to me it is cheating because he is getting off by another women even though they arent touching its still wrong

Answer 6

Yup. Any time you seek someone besides your spouse for either pleasure or romance, you're cheating. Just because it isn't physical, doesn't mean it's not cheating.

Answer 7

I think it is when you talk about having sex with anyone else like that its cheating, maybe your wife doesnt think so you would have to talk to her to see what she says.

Answer 8

It's adultery committed in the heart, so yes its cheating

Answer 9

If you are meditating on intimacy with someone who isnt your wife, its adultery.

Look at what Jesus said "If a man lusts after a woman, he commits adultery in his heart".

If your wife sat in on one of your encounters how would she feel? Would she feel betrayed? Would she cry?

Answer 10

yes its aform of deception . bet if u told ur lady the what u said to us she`s off like a brides nighty.

Answer 11

I think it is being disrespectful to your spouse. No matter the lack of physical contact, you are being intimate with someone else besides your spouse.