2006-07-25 04:05:17 · 18 answers · asked by Osama Bin Laden 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Is it ok to be straight? You are what you are. I don't believe people "turn" one way or the other. At some point, a person "knows" what sexual preference he or she inhabits. You need to learn to be comfortable with whatever that preference is. Underneath it all, we're still all human beings and that is our true common bond. All the labels divide us.
2006-07-25 04:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The short answer is: They have no choice
The longer answer is: When a hetrosexual man looks at a photography of a pretty woman minus clothing, he becomes arroused.
He doesn't say to himself, "society tells me she is pretty and therefor I should get arroused" his body does it 100% automaticly.
The knowledge taht said photo is 30 years old and the woman in the photo is now 50 years old doesn't change the reaction.
But when a gay man looks at the same photo he doesn't have any automatic reaction. He can say, she is a looker if I was straight I'd _______. But his body doesn't react the same why.
The same with lesbians. Lesbians are not attracted to men, and are attracted to woman, it is not a consious deciition is is how their body is wired.
Can a lesbian choose to get married to a man. Yes, will their marriage be loveless, yes. Does a marriage require love, no but it sure makes living with someone for 30 -40-50 years a heck of a lot easier.
2006-07-25 11:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by escapefromspringfield 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does seem normal for a man to sleep with a man and woman to woman? Isn't the opposite the normal way please help me understand how messing with someone of the same sex is normal and not some form of psychological defect.
It's in Corinthians 22, thou shall not lay with a man as he lay with a woman. These thingts had being going on during the time of christ that's why it was preached.
Some might say it's normal and they are proud of it, who am i to judge it is left for the Lord to judge on judgement day. A lot of gay people are cool and i don't have a problem with them. The scriptures in the Bible give me shivers though when i read them so i would advice you to pray about it in whatever religion you serve.
2006-07-25 12:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by young kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it okay to be straight? is it okay to have brown eyes? Is it okay to be five feet tall? You have as much control over all these things as you do with being a lesbian. This has got to be the dumbest most homophobic trash i've ever heard of.
2006-07-25 11:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by eydieville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ever met a really attractive lesbian who won't let you hit it because she is into chicks? I hate dykes.
It is wrong to be a lesbian. Wrong. You will burn in the fire everlasting....
2006-07-25 11:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why wouldn't it be? You can't help who you fall in love with and thats that. There's nothing wrong with being lesbian, its just a fact of nature.
2006-07-25 11:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by ♠AirForceBabe1699♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it OK? Is it OK? Yeah, is OK to be a lesbian.
2006-07-25 11:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hunny i discovered my sexual ortientation 5 years ago... AND I AM A PROUD LESBIAN.... :o) its ok to be anything and everything... and for the guy above me... thats like a gay guy turning to a straight guy saying hes hot.. he gets bashed on too.. and how would all you haters like it.. if i told you your going to burn in hell... ha.. **** that ima be proud and be loud.. ima be happy!
2006-07-25 11:53:28 · answer #8 · answered by keeping_y0u_a_secret 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is.
You fall in love with a person, not whether they have a pensilvania or a virginia. (hehehehehehe)
2006-07-25 13:36:44 · answer #9 · answered by Rayan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. But if that is what you choose, and are willing to face God when you die, and risk going to Hell, thats your choice.
2006-07-25 11:28:42 · answer #10 · answered by sshhmmee2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋