well my isue is my boyfriend is always messing aroud and tessing me about my big lips and says i feel like a water hose when he goes to finger me im only 5' 4" and 112 why are they so big and is that good or bad
2006-07-25 04:05:11 · 7 answers · asked by tilovebob 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im not tslkin about the lips on my face
2006-07-25 04:49:43 · update #1
I aassume he is talking about the upper lips being big not the lower lips, if you get my drift.
If they are the upper lips, I don't know about most guys. I like women with large pouty lips. Makes the act of kissing sooooo much better and more sensual.
As far as you being a water house you when he fingers you. He either is an insenstive jerk, or doesn't know that much about female anatomy. Most women are well "lubricated" down there the more the area is played with the more secretions.
2006-07-25 04:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by mikeae 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's only a boyfriend. Get rid of the jerk. You do not deserve such abuse. I realize you probably love him but look at it from this perspective. I had a boyfriend for 4 years who would occasionally mess around and was usually verbally abusive of my body etc. I finally left him so that he would actually start to look around for what he wanted. After grieving the relationship for 3 months I found a wonderful man and discovered how easy and wonderful a relationship could be. Of course this made the ex completely miserable for 2 years but he has recovered and is married to a woman with bigger breasts!
2006-07-25 04:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by psycho-cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have large beautiful kissable lips, and clearly your boyfriend fails to appreciate that.
A man who just puts you down and tries to make you feel worthless is no friend. Would he like it if you constantly put him down?
Tell him to change his attitude or you should go find another boyfriend who will appreciate you and make you realize and reach your potential.
one more thought ... you seem rather young. are you letting an insensitive jerk con you into sex by humiliating you into feeing worthless? if so .. wise up and kick him to the curb now!
2006-07-25 04:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by PlayTOE- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that boys are just like that..lol... maybe he doesnt have anything else to say...talk to him about it. if it gets to where u wanna break up with him u should just talk to him. or just maybe ask him to stop. good luck
2006-07-25 04:11:42 · answer #4 · answered by jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That might mean that they are swollen or something!!!
Anyways
Tell him to get over it its your body and if he can't accept it then he can get on!!!
2006-07-25 04:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by BabyGirl666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are who you are...he shouldn't tease you...degrading you is never going to work...he should make you feel good about yourself...you may need to talk with him about it.
2006-07-25 05:00:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont' worry you are what you are and be proud of your self don't let any one to hurt your feelings
2006-07-25 04:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋