sharing the pain of childbirth with your husband?

Question

Many women fear labor (the process of giving birth that is!). Why should only women suffer the terrible pain and not the men share with them? Here is a suggestion to share the pain: while in labor pains, the woman should hold on to her man's testicles. That should do the trick of pain sharing. Highly unrecommended if you intend have more children with the same man...

Answer 1

Bill Cosby said pull your lower lip over your forehead thats how it feels lol

Answer 2

Wow well this is actually an old tradition for some people and I think its quite sick. Child birth is not all that bad, I just had my first baby girl 2 weeks ago today and with the epidural I didnt feel any pain and she was even 8lbs 8.9 ounces and I tore pretty bad. If you cant hack it dont get pregnant in my opinion. I think healing after labor is more painful then having the baby. The man is there for support to keep you sane, I wouldnt want my husband in pain i'd rather have him there to keep me focused.

Answer 3

Why should the women only suffer the pain? Because they gain nothing by sharing it perhaps.

Causing someone else pain for your own pleasure is sadism you know.

The Sexes aren't equal, they never will be. For example, a man is alot less likely to sucker punch a woman who steps way over the line than a man who does the same. Does that mean that men should sucker punch women as much as they do other men, just to be equal?

Answer 4

If you feel that way, don't get pregnant. Don't take it out on your husband just because God/whatever blessed you with a child and you happen to be the gender that carries it. Think of it this way, you'll likely live longer anyway. So whats better... a few hours of pain, or a few extra years without him? You'll finally get that peace and quiet, you'll have the last word and he'll FINALLY be seperated from his Nintendo.

I KNOW! I have an alternative to mashing our jewels into bits like youre making tomatoes into spaghetti sauce! Everytime you have a contraction, we'll stub our toe as hard as we can against the table leg of your choice.

Answer 5

Wow apparently your man was not there for you my man made sure he did everything possible to make me comfortable he even asked the doctor if there was something they could give me for the pain and i refused i would never hurt my hubby in that way i know you were just joking right? I guess i am just lucky. But don't forget he did not get you that way on his own i would think you helped.

Answer 6

Having just given birth myself for the second time, I will always know that I gave my children life and have the battle scars to prove it. Thats enough satisfaction for me. I know that men could never give birth thats why God made women to do it. It is all worth it when you get to be the first one to hold your precious baby.

Answer 7

Having to put up with the pain of living with you sounds far worse than the pain you experience to give birth to your child.

Take some painkillers and be nice to your husband.

Answer 8

I understand what your saying
but with my husband (maybe not with all but in my experience)
seeing me in pain put him into such an emotionally painful and fearful place was great

men can do physical pain but emotional pain that is where you get them

Answer 9

Your a very angry woman. If you didn't want to go through child birth then you shouldn't have had children.
I would never wish my pain on someone else. Especially not a loved one.

Answer 10

I am afraid you have to put you child into an orphan home right after the birth. Because the extend of labor pain is so high and you will exert so much of presure on his testicles. With that you will be widowed and also you will be jailed for murder of your Husband. Hence the child .....................................///////?????????