much bleeding after first anal sex experience is this this normal and if so how long should I wait to try it again? The bleeding stopped the next day but it was bright red in color and there was quite alot
2006-07-25 03:24:57 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Work on trying to like it. First you must have a open mind. Then Have him just try rubing your anus while going down on u and then with a lube have him slowly work in. try that a few times before he just jabs that thing in there. Just work on it and have a open mind and your going to end up likeing it more than you thought that you would.
Good Luck
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2006-07-27 13:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by scruett 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I am a nurse and You may experience anal bleeding after anal sex. but you need to make sure next time you use a lot of lubrication. Start slow and don't let him control the movements You should because You will know what feels good and want doesn't. But it is normal. If you bleed A LOT for over a couple days then you need to see a doctor just to make for sure you didn't tear anything. PLEASE USE LUBE!!!
2006-07-25 05:52:31 · answer #2 · answered by angelhollomanlpn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I enjoy anal with my husband. I have never had bleeding. If you experienced bleeding I don't think that anal is right for you. Did you lube up first? It is necessary to prevent injury. And don't forget the anal isn't something you should do every week or anything like that. Or else, when you are old your bowls will be uncontrollable. Ask any old gay man. Try it agian with lube in about 2 weeks. If you still bleed then pass it up from now on.
2006-07-25 03:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you use lube? good god, do try something like that without lube!
the anus is built as an 'exit only' sort of outlet, and inserting things IN can cause a lot of damage to tissue, and can cause serious infections, as well as disrupt bowel movements. Its actual quite a delicate area.
Anal sex can cause bleeding. If and when it doesm I would use that as a sign to stop.
Injury or Infection to the anus is NOT something you want to hafta go to the dr for.
2006-07-25 03:33:31 · answer #4 · answered by Belial 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its a facet of intercourse thats all...however it turns into no longer a good suggestion if bleeding happens cos it's because of mucosa tears within the rectum which is able to rationale fissures which is able to rationale repeated bleeding while u cross to rest room..and in addition if in many instances this happens it would want surgical procedure to get the fissures healed.. if nthing occurs u can hold...but when it bleeds its nt a good suggestion..
2016-08-28 18:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean this with any condemnation(believe me when i say this)
But i speak from my heart,You are a women beautifully made,and you came in this world with all the necessary parts to function in a way that only a women can.
That part of your Body that you are speaking of sis,was made specially for a purpose.....It's an exit to get things out of your body.
I know you'll probably say well the other part of my body is an exit also.........Right?
Well the other part serves a dual purpose ......it is actually the incubator for bringing life into this world.
Now things may feel good when you do this( and I'm not about to get into your personal life style).
However the problem that you are having should be some kind of indication to stay away from that which you are doing...if nothing more it should warrant at least a thought!
Remember dear I'm not in any way trying to judge you,I'm just trying to let you see another perspective.......
Boo,you were made by the hand of God with the proper parts to do the proper things..............................
More importantly is that you take care of yourself sis,
And i believe some people already have said see a doctor,Okay?
And i will be praying for your best,.
I only care about the best for people,be well sis.
Peace out
2006-07-25 04:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by tomio 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I guess he hurt you!!! When i did it the first time i bleeded a lil bit like a dot!!! Heres a little advice dont do it alot cuz i heard that later on when your old you wont be able to hold your stuff!!!! But Im not sure it doesnt hurt if you try!!!
2006-07-25 03:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by CAM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you had a rough experience.
Either he was to forceful entering you or there was not enough lube.
When participating in anal sex, it is important to be very relaxed, use lots of lube & take time to enter.
It is also very important to remember there is only one layer of skin in the anus, it can be ripped very easily, causing septic poisioning for the receiver.
Good luck & be careful.
2006-07-25 03:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he ride you to hard i think , Bleeding its not normal , you may get to the Dr ASAP , he may damage you nerves in you butt so better go to the Dr, i never had anal sex but i'm sure bleeding its not normal .
2006-07-25 03:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by Dayan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes there is bleeding caused by a fissure.... usually it stops sooner than your bleeding stopped..... you might want to get that looked at....
next time (and i would wait at least two weeks to try again) make sure to use plenty of lube and have your lover start off slowly.....
2006-07-25 03:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by myheartisjames 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bleeding is normal and you may not be able to fully control your stools. It will all get back to normal soon. But I thinks it hurts don't you.
2006-07-25 03:29:06 · answer #11 · answered by wife&mommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋