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I'm a 23 year old wanting to know how I can get an older women to be interested in me. I think she already finds me attractive but is reluctant to show her interest because of our age difference. I think she is in her late 30s or early 40s. I find her very attractive and want to know how I can approach her without making her feel uncomfortable. Please help.

2006-07-25 02:46:36 · 13 answers · asked by Inquisit 2 in Social Science Gender Studies

13 answers

Have you ever tried saying hello?

2006-07-25 02:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by AJ 3 · 0 0

You just have to flirt with her a little. Sure she will give you some small signs to show you that's shes interested in you. Ask her if she wants to hang out some time. I'm trying to get with a older person too. I'm 21, and she's 33.

2006-07-25 09:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Dragonpack 3 · 0 0

Im 42...really the same way you would talk to any woman. Just make general conversation to start with...get to know her interests, then ask to join her in one of them.

2006-07-25 09:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by goodwitch 2 · 0 0

If u are in the same working environment, try to assist her whenever u can. In this way, u can break the ice and follow up from there.

2006-07-25 09:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by csi_2037 1 · 0 0

The first thing to do is make sure she doesn't have any children your age. That's a relationship stopper right there.

2006-07-25 09:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by cirestan 6 · 0 0

Smile at her whenever you see her look your way. When you find her smiling at you easily already, strike up a conversation. Ask her how she is doing and ask her if she'd like to have coffee with you. The key here is to be open to it. When she sees you are warm to her, she'd also warm up to you. :)

2006-07-25 09:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jo Ann 6 · 0 0

say "hello" and see how it goes from there

find common interests to discuss

doesnt matter how old people are they are still people and you meet them in the same way

2006-07-25 09:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by Ðêù§ 5 · 0 0

Hi,, why dont you begin with ,,, " Hello",,,,,,, and take it from there....maybe you can let her talk more,,, if she is interested,, you will know ..... ..LOL.....(real soon in some cases)

good luck

2006-07-25 10:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0 0

How U doinnnnnnnnnnnnnnn?

2006-07-25 09:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by miketorse 5 · 0 0

Say hello and go from there.

2006-07-25 10:48:44 · answer #10 · answered by Shawna 3 · 0 0

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