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Question

My man is hot and I love to be intimate with him, the one thing I have a question about is he last under 5 minutes why is that? Could it be he is very turned on??Or am I doing something wrong

Answer 1

It is probably because he is over stimulated, he wont last long like that.

I heard a good saying once, maybe it applies.

Mkaing love lasts only minutes, but fuc#ing can last for hours.

Now dont take this the wrong way, just try to be aggressive with him, role play, do something, but dont try to be lovey dovey intimate, it wont last long

Answer 2

He is very turned on, no doubt about that. You aren't doing anything wrong. Having said that, there is a little, teeny, tiny, tidbit of information that he needs to have. That is that five minutes isn't long enough for you. ('m making that assumption, based on the tone of your question.) If he's pretty much secure in who and what he is, he'll be happy to learn that you'd like a little longer time of action. If he isn't secure, there are a couple of ways he may react that aren't too good.
There are several things he can do to prolong your intimacy that are easily learned. Talk with him. Remember, relationships are negotiated. They don't just bloom in concrete, never to be changed.

Answer 3

Girl, I think you have your man very hot and turned on when you are intimate. Perhaps slowing things down a bit might prolong the experience for you both. You are definitely not doing anything wrong.

Answer 4

I usually don't answer these types of questions but you seem sincere so I will tell you that excitement,anxiety,inexperience and stress can cause pre mature ejaculation.It's not your problem.If you do not reach a climax then you could have him stimulate your clitoris after wards and perhaps fondle your breast at the same time.He probably is feeling bad about you not reaching a climax.Foreplay also may help.Don't make any derogatory comments to him,that will only make him worse and damage his self esteem.When a man cannot perform to his expectations he gets really concerned because they equate manliness with their ability to make their partner reach a climax.If you feel embarrassed asking him to "help" you then wait until he goes to the bathroom to wash and masturbate yourself to get satisfaction.Works for me and it all achieves the same results.

Answer 5

I was like that at one point. Until I decided that I should take time pleasing the woman I was with instead of thinking about me. It took a little time, but each time after that was longer and longer. And also had to get a little more creative, NOT crazy. The only bad part is, now that we're not together anymore, she wants to hook up. I know that sounds strange, but i go forward not back. I hope this helps you and your man.

Answer 6

If he is overweight or smokes anything this could be a problem - but just have him manually prep himself. I know it sounds immature, but if he would get himself off earlier in the day, he would last longer later. Its like anything practice makes perfect. Also try to slow things down. Once you start having sex allow him to slow it down, relax, and even pull out here and there to regroup. A lot goes on in a short time frame, he just needs to adjust.

Answer 7

You are obviously a woman that knows what she is doing!

Go an get some desensitizing cream for him and that might help in premature ejaculation.

>> Ha! one of my girlfriends' is here right now, she said to tell you that once your married as long as we have both been you'll wish it only took five minutes!<<

Answer 8

Not doing anything wrong just slow it down a little bit. Most likely he is nervous on some level. Have him spend some more time on you, like a massage before or longer oral.

Answer 9

May be he was very exited about you to get on bed so discharged early

Answer 10

You are so hott that he just can't control himself.