I'm a 23 year old wanting to know how I can get an older women to be interested in me. I think she already finds me attractive but is reluctant to show her interest because of our age difference. I think she is in her late 30s or early 40s. I find her very attractive and want to know how I can approach her without making her feel uncomfortable. Please help.
2006-07-25 02:32:24 · 9 answers · asked by Inquisit 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
be yourself! if she doesn't fall for you b/c of your age difference, then move on, b/c she isn't worth it! someone who likes you won't care. i'm 27 and all my boyfriends are 18 or so. so i'm very well aware of your situation. :)
2006-07-25 02:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself treat her like a lady be kind do the things a gentlemen would do open doors car doors if you go to a restaurant pull her chair from under the table hold her hand if she doesn't mind while you are walking down the street show affection a little kiss if she doesn't mind women like that type of behavior. Most of all you as a young man please have good personal hygiene and women like a man to smell good, wear a good cologne dress nice as possible.
2006-07-25 11:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by busthead213 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you approach in a calmly matter and usually older people like to talk a lot ask them a simple question first were did you buy that fragrance or complement her shoes and if she starts to talk you can ask questions and i GUARANTEE she will respond for like 30 minutes and you would take your answer and answer with big fancy words so at least she knows your trying to conversate good luck
plus you would be a boy toy so go ahead she is already old she doesn't have much time
2006-07-25 09:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by alice.adelaide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's too old, if you prefer older women.fine........but take it from me, you wouldn't have that much in common, and it would fizzle quickly, she wouldn't relate to your generation and think certain things were funny like women your age would, attractive isn't always the answer and you can find an attractive woman your age unless there is something wrong with her...
2006-07-25 09:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by sherry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking about what she does. Talk about things that she does and ilkes. If she is an homemaker talk about what she does. If she works somewhere talk about her work. Most likely she is likely to discuss her problems to you. That may be her weak spot, so give her good support over there.
Best of luck buddy.
2006-07-25 10:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by varunnagwekar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a Sweetheart you are. Just tell her how you feel, I'm sure if she feels its not a good thing, she'll let you know. Don't forget, she won't bite you, & I'm sure she'll take it as a compilment. It doesn't hurt to try.I wish you the very best!!!!!.
2006-07-25 09:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by sqishieears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geez, this isnt high school, talk to her already... if she isnt interested in a younger man she is probably interested in a friend- you'll find out soon enough
2006-07-25 09:37:04 · answer #7 · answered by Luci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how menopause is going for her. That is a sure fire way to get a response.
2006-07-25 09:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by gunga_gungalunga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go outwith edna shes old
2006-07-25 10:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋