my husband has an offer to change jobs.. he isn't sure if he should take it.. for one he is more of a loner and now works by himself at 19.25 an hr... but the new job is abot 30 thousand more a yr. but plus an extra 30-40 hours a week. and plus he wil be in a building with lots of other people around where he kinda likes it how it is right now where he is by himself.. but his delema is we could get all of our bills paid off in at least a year and a half if not sooner. so I am not sure if it would be worth the money if he will be gone all the time..... what do you all think..
2006-07-25 01:47:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If it causes him to be away more,that will just put added stress on your marraige!My advice,let him stay where he is,the bills will get paid eventually and you wont have to sacrifice your marraige to do so.Good luck God bless:O)
2006-07-25 01:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesnt like working around people I would say it is not worth it. If he is unhappy at work then he will make everyone at home miserable too. Working an EXTRA 30-40 hours a week is like having a second job! That is just nuts!
2006-07-25 08:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he won't like the job and what's the point of making a lot of cash if you never have time to enjoy it? There's more to life than work. He could take the job until all of your bills are paid and then look for something else but I wouldn't bother. Sounds like he's better off where he is.
2006-07-25 09:05:44 · answer #3 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that if you force him into taking a job he doesn't like he could became angry with you. The other question you have to ask is if you have children how will this job effect them, he'll be working later & long, will his weekends be free, money isn't always the answer to happiness. As Dave Ramsey Says "beans and rice, live life now like no other, so later you can live life like no other".. check out his web-site
2006-07-25 08:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by captianpr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really what are you willing to give up are you willing to give up some of your time with him to be able to pay all your bills or r u happy with how things are now. You need to consider all the pros and cons because money is not always everything.
2006-07-25 08:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you BOTH would end up pretty unhappy. Kind of a no-brainer isn't it?
2006-07-25 08:59:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the job you will be in better shape financially.
2006-07-25 08:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what is going to make you both happy, money isn't everything.
2006-07-25 08:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by Milkman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Half bread better than non!
2006-07-25 08:52:39 · answer #9 · answered by oyetimtop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it
2006-07-25 08:51:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋