I really don't know what to do at this point.....?

Question

I took a pregnancy test and it came out positive. I don't know what to do can anyone give me some advice?

Answer 1

talk to your obgyn first of all. there is never a false positive. Tell the father to be next. if needing help financially or emotionally, there are many places you can find help...(planned parenthood, health department...etc) ask your doc for references. The best advice i can give you is that....I believe everything happens for a reason......it was meant for you to have a child at this time. Good luck and keep your head up!!!!

Answer 2

First, you need to go to a prenatal Dr. If you can't afford one find a clinic. Second, it doesn't say how old you are, if you are under 18 you need to talk to your parents. This is sometimes a hard thing to do but you need to do it. After the initial shock, most parents come to terms with it, afterall there isn't much they can do. Then, you need to decide what you are going to do. If your under age, your parents should be included in this too. Do you want to keep the baby? Are you too young to keep the baby and give him/her a good life? Think about the welfare of the baby here, not just you. Planned parenthood would be a good place to go if you have one nearby. Or you can talk to the Dr. and find out what options you have. I am pro life, so I would never suggest an abortion. That is your choice though. Think it through and don't worry. There have been many before you and many after you that will be going through the same things and they have all made it! Good luck!

Answer 3

The question is very general - but, here goes: Under "whatever" circumstances - I think that perhaps you should tell someone of consequence, i.e. the person who made you pregnant, your partner, mate, parents, "whomever". The "telling" would be 1st.
2d. Okay - you may be pregnant! Do you want to be pregnant? If you don't there are "ways" to NOT be pregnant - look into them. There should be a hospital, or some sort of health related facility where you could go to ask for help. That's always a good place to begin - because your condition is now a "health related issue" for you and your body. Some sort of religious input may be helpful after you've consulted a DR. A library is a good place for sourse material on conditions of the nature your speaking of. On the "internet" you can gain almost as much information as you can at a library. (I think you can even gain access to all information the "library" has to offer - on the "net")!
3d. And this is the most important, if you decide you want to have the baby: begin to take "things" for your and your baby's health, i.e. vitamines, eat "things" that are good for you, etc. The same hospital, or health related facility would be able to help you with that type of information.
Whatever you decide - you have to make the decisions now. Good luck to you.

Answer 4

Go to your doctor or county health department (they're usually a lot cheaper or even free) and get a blood test done there to verify that you really are pregnant. Then it's up to you to decide if you want to keep your baby. Personally, I don't really approve of an abortion unless a girl has been a victim of a sexual assault or the baby is certain to have birth defects or it will endanger the mother's life to have the baby. If you weren't responsible enough to use protection, it's time to buck up and take responsibility. You've created a human! Congratulations. If you think you don't want to keep the baby, consider putting it up for adoption, so that someone who wants a baby but is unable to have one gets their chance to raise a child. Some people want children so much that they are even willing to pay your medical expenses while you're pregnant.

Answer 5

Pregnancy is such a wonderful blessing from the Lord especially if you are married...

If you are not married and is pregnant, you have to get the support of your immediate family. Go get advise from your mother, if she is mad at you, then decide to raise the baby by yourself.

May God give you a healthy pregnancy, keep smiling!

Answer 6

you didnt say how old you are, not that it matters, you need to go to your gp and tell him you need to tell your parents and the father, and sit down and think what you would like to do, i know its a shock when your least expecting it, my best friend has just found out she was pregnant and she still thinks its a dream and that was 2 weeks ago haha!!!! its a serious thing bringing a life into this world, think hard about what you want to do, good luck and all the best to you xxxx

Answer 7

Interview doctors and midwives to pick a prenatal caregiver. Come up with a list of questions you want answered and make some appoinments to pick someone to be your caregiver. Start taking prenatal vitamins if you haven't already.

Answer 8

You need to weigh your options, decide if it is or isn't the right situation for you and go from there... Take into consideration the support, or lack there of, from your family, the father & your financial situation...

Answer 9

Find yourself an OB doctor and start getting prenatal care. All your questions and concerns should be addressed to your OB doctor.

Answer 10

i really understand wat u r feeling right inside...
well... the best way to solve this is to get ur parent's support...

wat wat's done is done.. and there's no turning back...
i wouldnt suggest u for abortion..
but... i storingly suggest u to think properly before giving birth to that baby...
will u take k of his/her future?
will u ensure that the baby will be happie?

dont go for abortion.. but dont spoil a baby's life too...

now.. i hope u will listen to me...
go ahead n ask ur parent's help.. it does realli work trust me..!!
they might get pissed / angry at first... but they the anger wont last long... cuz wats done is done...

life is all about making decisions... and walking on roads..
now, ur about to walk on a tougher road...
just walk through it and its over...!!
here, i give u all my support and hope thAT u will do as i told..
trust me.. ur parents are the onlee ones u can rely on now...

ps : dont do silly things.. dont even try to commit suicide pls..!
ur life is precious....!
u will regret if u do so...!
talk to ur parents..
they might not understand u..
but at least./. ur not alone now...