do you think being a virgin is important to a guy? I want to have sex with my boyfriend but im having second thoughts that i might regret it in the end!!
2006-07-25 01:36:36 · 15 answers · asked by sad girl008 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It depends on your definition of "Virgin". Physiologically, it is inevitable that a guy will climax (with or without knowing).
Of course there is a lot to be gained with ABSTINENCE with all the diseases floating from person to person.
As for a guy LOOKING for a virgin, I wouldn't do anything with someone who is just looking for sex with a virgin. (Safe idea, but poor values). It is better to grow in love in a relationship before anyone takes it to that level. (Enjoy your virginity. It's a treasure YOU can keep until you treasure someone else more!)
2006-07-25 01:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by dustytymes 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's very important, but if you're a virgin, I'm sure that your boyfriend will overlook that if you're willing to have sex with him. The good news, of course, is that you'll no longer be a virgin, so you won't have to worry about this anymore, right?
Now, much more of a concern is what you're doing to make certain that you do not become pregnant. Have you spoken with your doctor about the possibility of becoming sexually active? If you become pregnant you will most definitely regret it, and your boyfriend will regret it even more. Do not take pregnancy lightly.
2006-07-25 08:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time, if he really loves you then he'll wait. If he doesn't understand, then he wasn't the guy you thought he was. And then you won't be giving him your virginity. The virginity part isn't the important thing, It's the togetherness that both of you will feel the first time. Some make you chose wisely. Because your virginity does seem important to you..
2006-07-25 08:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by captianpr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things are changing fast in India. No body expects his bride to be virgin, but still wants one. You decide what you want to do. But I would say, Live your life the way you want it. Dont change your attitude because of others. People would say you are not a virgin because you are in a relationship. So dont worry take a decision which suits you best.
2006-07-25 08:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by vickybablani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virginity is only important when the girl in question decides to hold it in high esteem. No guy is that keen about it though it is desirable. The bottomline is that anyone who desires to keep it should steer clear of the 'wolves'.
2006-07-25 08:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Sage_Learner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
virginity to a guys is like an imaginary friend, you grow out of it but for a lady, its a very different story, don't loose it unless you really want to, guys hold the pressure but women have the power in that kind of situation.
2006-07-25 08:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by fenrir_131 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your virginity is just that: YOURS!! to give away only ONCE!! you shouldn't worry about what he thinks... if you're already having second thoughts WAIT!! you're probably not quite ready... look for your own virgin!! that way you can boyh be absolutely SURE you won't end up with some nasty disease that could follow you FOREVER and be passed on to others
2006-07-25 08:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by bigmammarush 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in this day and age guys don't really care as long as your not going to cheat on them,,but for your well being I'd wait till your really ready, and if a really understanding man he'll wait too. don't do it if your going to regret it.
2006-07-25 08:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by tushpush1966 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on a guys culture. Most guys don't give a rats A-$-$ and some guys do. Just depends on the guy.
2006-07-25 08:39:54 · answer #9 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tink tat virginity is cool. u must make sure he loves u n u love him before doing anything. that first time. pls make it memorable. dun lose it to juz any tom dick or harry..
be strong in following yr heart!
2006-07-25 08:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by jixiang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋