I'll go with my ability to stand down to confrontation. Sometimes instead of walking off and letting it go. I tend to go toe to toe with people. (no not in the physical sense) i've out grown that level, but i still haven't learned to let people just say anything they want to me and simply ignore it. Sometimes i will, but more often than not- i wont. That's something i'm definitely working on. I guess i have to learn to pick and chose my battles.
2006-07-25 01:32:05 · 7 answers · asked by Sxyblkdiva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Mine would be my lack of self esteem, i have the opposite problem as u , i have a very hard time standing up for myself, instead i tend to back down to everyone and let people treat me as if i am a door mat.. id want to be confident in every aspect of who i am, instead of being insecure about everything, its so bad that when people do pay me a compliment i cringe.. i get so nervous inside to the point that i feel sick.. im one of those people that when i walk into a room if i hear anyone laughing i automatically think they are laughing at me and i want to just crawl under a rock.. So id definately say i wish i could be more confident, and not suffer from such a low self esteem..
2006-07-25 01:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the exact opposite of you. I am a people pleaser and I've worked so hard for such a long time to put my foot down and say no. I don't like confrontations and I do everything I can to avoid it... this in turn often takes a toll on my life. I'll often do things I don't feel comfortable with because I just don't want to upset others. That's what I need to improve: my self-esteem. Don't take me wrong, I've made huge steps. I use to beat myself down and think the worst of myself, yet I still have a long way to go. I always worry about what others will think of me if I say no. Will they think less of me or will they be angry. Yes, I am a doormat and I'll admit it. Perhaps you can give me some of your ability to confront others and life would be much simpler!
2006-07-25 19:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by bonjovifan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say I need to learn to do more for myself instead of always being the one to help everyone else out !You know I could be really going through and when my friends are going through I'm always there to pick them up but when I'm down no one else seems to be around think its about time I seek new friends!
2006-07-25 09:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need 2 work on my self concept. I've been sort of solving that problem since I got a boyfriend, but I guess I still judge myself sometimes.
2006-07-25 09:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by wolfgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine would be to find ways to have more FUN. I find myself taking life much too seriously at times. Caring about things I can do nothing about, etc. If there isn't much enjoyment in things that I do I want to be better at changing that and have more fun be it working or playing.
2006-07-25 09:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have any, nothing to improve on. I'm perfect I'd say, even if i'm not. Nobody's cent percent. There's always scope for improvements. What I'm concentrating upon is perfection.
2006-07-25 08:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by JD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need to improve my responses to "Yahoo Answers"
2006-07-25 09:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋