The unfairness of abortions towards the male gender?

Question

In order to get pregnant it requires both a man and a woman. Unless it's rape or incest, then the sex was concentual, so it is not just the males fault for not wearing a condom. If it is concentual then the woman should be in her right mind to say no condom, no sex. Abortions should be a join decision too because just like it takes two to have sex, it takes two to make a baby. As it is now, the only loser seems to be the male and I think it's unfair, we women preach equality but we've gotten so much special priviliges that men seem to be treated unfair now a days. If after a night of concentual sex the woman ends up pregnant, she has control of two lives, the baby and the man. If she doesn't want the baby but he does, then it doesn't matter what he wants, she can just dispose of the baby. Why won't it work the other way though, if she wants it and he doesn't, then it doesn't matter what he thinks and he has to pay up. We women take a lot of our freedoms for granted.

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Answer 1

you are soooo right on that subject and im getting really sick of that happening to men because some of them really want the baby. and then we women have to nerve to say " its my body" well if it wasn't for HIS sperm the baby wouldn't be able to be born, so he atleast has to have a say in things but noooo........i hate it when we women get special treatment and use it to our advantage but always complain about equality and what not its stupid

Answer 2

I don't really agree with you. I still think men have a lot more advantages than women. We're far from equal and I don't think it's a good idea to allow men or anyone else tell us what we can or can't do with our own bodies. If we get pregnant then it's us that has to go through the pregnancy, not the guy. And usually when we do have the baby it's us that ends up taking care of it the majority of the time. As for men who have to pay child support.....check out the statistics on how many men don't pay child support but leave the woman to raise a child alone on one income. So yeah, it's sad that some men are put in that situation but it's not as harmful as the situation lots of men put the women in.

Answer 3

Use birth control, if it fails, get an abortion in case you want. in case you get raped and dont need somewhat one led to becouse of a rape, get abortion. yet i imagine it is incorrect if sluts like Paris purely pass fcuking each and every man or woman inebriated, get pregnant and then finally end up getting an abortion. yet is it correct for the youngster to have a non-worrying slut as a mom? so i ought to assert 2). a lady might want to be allowed to opt for about her body. i'm type of both anti-abortion and professional-abortion. Abortion isn't correct continuously, yet you mustn't ban it. and that i dont evaluate an egg and a sperm cellular somewhat one, you should claim that "ban scratching, it is killing our cells" even as the egg and the sperm cellular are beginning to style right into a fetus you would possibly want to imagine extra about the moral area. don't be so black and white human beings!

Answer 4

I'm not sure what your question is but I do agree. A Friend of mine once had an abortion because she felt she wasn't ready to be a parent. She didn't tell her boyfriend and he was horrified when he found out. It ruined their relationship and some of her friendships with other people as well. Including her own mother who was quite prepared to be a grandma.

Answer 5

Quite simply, because that is the way it is. There is no other answer I can think of, it's just another one of those situations where the girls hold all the cards.

Answer 6

You are really hung up on this issue, aren't you. Woman's choice. Not unfair at all.