I knew this ex friend of mine since we were kids, we grew up together, got into trouble together, did everything together,. Well a little over a year ago, she moved to where I live, and I was so happy. But after a while, she seemed like I was a big pain in the butt. She got tangled up with some questionable people and left me hanging. Now, I'm feeling bad cause I wasn't there for her, I only got angry. She has since moved away. Should I call her, or just leave it be?
2006-07-25 01:00:36 · 17 answers · asked by redneckgirl33 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
do as your heart says .... what have you got to loose?
she might be be happy to hear your voice .... or else she might not bother ... but you have nothing to loose since she already moved away things can only get better not worse!!
and no matter what at least you have tried okay.
let us know what you did (smile)
2006-07-25 01:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by sue f 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry this happened to you. Unfortunately the way a lot of people deal with conflict is to keep inside how they feel. So you can probably count on the fact that she is not doing all of this just because you said you said you couldn't pay for her hair. There may have been other things that hurt her that you may have done without even meaning to, planning a wedding is a huge stress in anyone's life and it's easy to take your friends for granted during that time. My advice to you is to write her a letter or message her online, most of the time you don't have to be somebody's friend to message them. Be honest with her, tell her you are hurt that your friendship is ending like this and that you don't completely understand how you hurt her but are very sorry for the way she feels. Lay it all out to her like you did on here. You can mention how much you wish she was going to be in your wedding and that you didn't mean for her to feel like you wanted her out of the wedding but at this point I would make other plans because unless some miraculous make up immediately, you are better off being honest with her and letting her go so you can enjoy your wedding. Eventually you may be able to work things out but trying to force something is only going to make things worse at this point. I hope this helps.
2016-03-27 06:08:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bestfriend sometimes just come and go,but in your situation,you have to comfort her as you feel that she is still a special for you! To love is the most compelling emotion and that is how you feel with your ex-friend! You treasured a lot of thing despites of all bitterness, you really is a real person inside and a real bestfriend(How I wish I could find someone like you as my bestfriend)! She is lucky enough to have you and I am pretty sure she will be surprised and become one of the most happy person in the world for unexpected reconciliation!Good luck!
2006-07-25 01:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by tutax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For your own peace of mind, go ahead and call her. Just realize you may not get the reception you desire, but at least you'll know you tried and therefore hopefully can put your mind to rest regarding the situation.
2006-07-25 01:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to contact the ex-friend. Because friendship is forever.
Give chance to uplift them
A FRIEND IN NEED - A FRIEND IN DEED
2006-07-25 01:10:36 · answer #5 · answered by Somi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People grow apart. Just leave it be and make some new friends who are more in tune with your life style now.
2006-07-25 01:04:56 · answer #6 · answered by Aumatra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try calling and making up.
Friends at young ages are the friends that stay with you forever!
2006-07-25 01:03:01 · answer #7 · answered by Shark_Tooth_90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been battling with a similar situation. I have decided to reach out to her and see what happens. Just be honest with yourself and the other person.
2006-07-25 01:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by Francesca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendships are the most important thing in life suck it up and call her tell her your feelings in a nice way and ask her to chill it will be worth it just do not go around her loser friends....
2006-07-25 01:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you won't make a move now, you'll never know what will happen next.....
....who knows your ex friend might be missing you too... Ü
2006-07-25 01:04:42 · answer #10 · answered by slayer0522 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋