I'm 16 and i found out i'm pregnant after i broke up with my ex one week later, he is avoiding me all the time, even i told him i'm pregnant. I tried to be good with him, but he never bothers me, he just asked me to "settle" myself, what should i do now? T.T
2006-07-25 00:13:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i really understand wat u r feeling right inside...
well... the best way to solve this is to get ur parent's support...
DONT beg that dam *** to come back again please..!
even if he do, its onlee for the sake of the baby.. not U..
he wouldnt be responsible.. even if he do, it wont last long.. trust me...
i'm realli sorry to sound harsh...
wat wat's done is done.. and there's no turning back...
i wouldnt suggest u for abortion..
but... i storingly suggest u to think properly before giving birth to that baby...
will u take k of his/her future?
will u ensure that the baby will be happie?
dont go for abortion.. but dont spoil a baby's life too...
now.. i hope u will listen to me...
go ahead n ask ur parent's help.. it does realli work trust me..!!
they might get pissed / angry at first... but they the anger wont last long... cuz wats done is done...
life is all about making decisions... and walking on roads..
now, ur about to walk on a tougher road...
just walk through it and its over...!!
here, i give u all my support and hope thAT u will do as i told..
trust me.. ur parents are the onlee ones u can rely on now...
ps : dont do silly things.. dont even try to commit suicide pls..!
ur life is precious....!
u will regret if u do so...!
talk to ur parents..
they might not understand u..
but at least./. ur not alone now...
2006-07-25 00:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being pregnant can not make someone love you. Seek support from people who honestly cares for you, such as your parents and other family members. Get a counselor if you need to. Being 16 and pregnant is a tough hill to climb but with loving support from those who care and a little maturity on your part you will be OK. As for the father of the baby, I hope he matures and takes responsibility for the baby. Every child needs to know their parents.. even if the parents are not together... Good Luck
2006-07-25 00:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by just_libs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Candy... I hope your relationship with your parents is a good one cause you will need all the support you can get now... Dont pay him any attention..I know it will be hard especially since you are at that age and you are going to be a mother..Look at it this way.. You are bringing a new life into tis world.. A new experience for both you and your baby! Enjoy it there are many women that would love to have that priviledge and cant. Take care of yourself during the pregnancy. Dont smoke or drink. And Congratulations Mommy to be!
2006-07-25 00:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by Baby Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do now? Be responsible and ensure the baby will get the best care and love possible!
If you're mature enough to have sex, then you're mature enough to raise a child on your own because you can't depend on a teenage boy to willingly take on the responsibilities of an adult man.
Now you know why people warn about having "casual" and unprotected sex...
I'm sorry to sound so harsh, but like many, many other young women, you're learning life's lessons the hard way...
2006-07-25 00:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the baby, get a paternity test, and make him be responsible. If you do not want the baby then put it up for adoption but no abortion pleeeeeeeeease. Right now all you can do is try to talk with him about it and hope he will listen
2006-07-25 00:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by Diamond Freak :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him! You have a lot more to worry about right now than him. Figure out what you are going to do with your future. Then if you decide to keep the child, you can go after him for a paternity test and child support.
2006-07-25 00:28:20 · answer #6 · answered by Aumatra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to do some serious thinking about what you need to do you need to make the best decision about what you want to do but i beg you don't make a rash decision if you think you can buck up and keep the baby do it if you think you can't handle it find good adoptive parents I'm adopted and i am thankfull i was given up i have a great life i had my first child at 18 i bucked up and have raised 3 now it was well worth it
2006-07-25 00:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by hfroggie2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have thought of the consequences before having sex. Children making babies, it is sad. well, now you have 3 choices. You can abort, put baby up for adoption, have baby and nail his dumb a$$ for child support. But I don't know what kind of child support you can get out of a 16 year old boy
2006-07-25 00:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im really sorry but you really have to tell someone that can ... help well adoption would be a great i dea if your not ready to take care of a child but abotion.... is like really the last ... thing you should doo... think hard okay? your boyfreind ... welll im really sorry he's irresponsible...i dont undertand what he is thinking b/c he cant hide from it... he should be there to do something...
2006-07-25 02:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your too young to have a baby. Give it up for adoption or consider abortion. I don't really think he'll be coming back.
2006-07-25 00:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by tecumshea200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋