Is it proper for a married woman to say to her husband when having sex"**** me hard".Doesn't that mean she is a slut?
2006-07-24 23:50:56 · 31 answers · asked by mo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you are married to him for crying out loud....you can say whatever you want...just keep in mind, that he doesn't get offended...all's fair on the marital bed!
2006-07-24 23:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by ram 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a wife and husband does in there bedroom is good in the eyes of the lord. Says so in the bible. So if God says it okay and your husband is okay with it then its okay. Dont let other people set your sex life standard with your husband. Only he and you should care what goes on in your bed. So honey if you like it rough and hard or kinky or something different each time you go for it. just dont forget to ask your husband how he likes it too.
2006-07-24 23:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by starrmerlan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married couples should talk to each other about what they both like sexually.If your married,good communication should already be in place which should include your lovemaking.If you're comfortable with each other there shouldn't be a problem.Or you could just say or do what you want,if your husband has a problem with it he'll probably let you know.
2006-07-24 23:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by 2BaD4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is 2006, Women can say whatever we want. Nobody should judge. Besides you are married to him and some guys find their wife saying such things a big turn on especially as the marriage progress. It makes the guy feel young and really wanted.
2006-07-24 23:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by Diamond Freak :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is...when you have sex...don't you want it to feel good and continue to feel good? Well..if she asks you that then perhaps the reason she asked was because she wants to feel good...it has nothing to do with her being a sl*t or not...treat your wife like you would treat your girlfriend and I promise you...you will always be happy in bed....
Furthermore, you should want to do things to you wife so that she feels good in bed too. Sexual desire is not a one way street..if you want sex a certain way and she fulfills your needs the least you can do is fulfill hers without asking to be submissive and restricting her from expressing her desires in bed too. If you continue this kind of thinking she might as well stop having sex with you, since you think only sl*ts have the right to enjoy sex.
2006-07-24 23:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by monavyas15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with other participants who say that in bed room while doing *******, wife can say any thing to her husband. A good wife is one who keeps silence. she does not even express her desire of sex. It is left on the husband wish. If he calls her on his bed, and she should submit fully to the desire of her husband. But it is not good for woman during sexual intercourse to utter ugly language like prostitutes.
2006-07-25 00:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A married woman is allowed to say anything she wants as long as it does not cause her emotion injury to her husband. I am sure your hubby enjoys it otherwise he would have stated so.
2006-07-24 23:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by ngina 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not just two consenting adults, but you're partners and married. Whatever turns you on that isn't hurting yourselves or each other and that you agree feels right is OK!
2006-07-24 23:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is quite natural. She is frank with her husband and it is her right in privacy. Those who see this being odd, they are great hypocrites and pretenders. There is a cultural crisis with them and they have double standards of morality: one set for males and another for females in their society.
2006-07-24 23:58:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very normal....a married woman can atleast tell her husband what she really wants.
2006-07-24 23:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋