2006-07-24 22:03:24 · 11 answers · asked by yadayada 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
There are two kinds of orgasms for women. One can be obtained by stimulating the g-spot and the other can be obtained by the clitoris. When having intercourse, a women can reach orgasm only by the g-spot. If g-spot is touched properly by the penis every time it enters then thats the greatest orgasm anybody could have achieved. But if its n't then it will not make the women orgasm.
2006-07-24 22:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by novinsab 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In most of my relationships, the path of least resistance seems to be oral stimulation first and then intercourse. It's easy and expected, especially with a new partner, to go with the oral first if only as part of the foreplay routine in order to prepare for intercourse.
I always enjoyed giving oral sex and have always tended to make a big production out of it for the woman, especially after we've been doing it regularly together and have our signals and timing and special turn-ons figured out. It's kind of like what Dumpfinds said. When the woman has a good comfort level with the man, then oral sex gives the man a lot of control over the pacing and intensity of the woman's arousal, and that's a turn-on for the man too. As a result, a lot of my past partners often seemed to get their most intense orgasms during the oral sex and then used the following intercourse to finish off any leftover orgasms still lingering about. But sometimes the woman comes down after the oral sex, rests up a bit at the start of intercourse, and then builds up to a whole new string of even more powerful orgasms further along in the intercourse.
So who knows. I'm just talking about averages anyway, and about my particular style with the particular partners I had in the past. When it comes to sex with my wife these days, she has loosened up quite a bit over the years and gets lots of powerful, noisy orgasms from just about anything. We also play around with vibrators, XXX movies, different positions, etc. We get creative. So in general I just try to watch for her signals, time things right, redouble my efforts if I see her building up for another wave of orgasms, and hang on for the ride. :-)
2006-07-25 00:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jim R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The better the lead up the better the acctual sex will be. if you have foreplay and give her oral stimulation ect. the sex will most likly be more enjoyable then with out the before hand lead up. so i would say oral stimulation.
2006-07-24 22:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by Meg R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes a woman prefers these matters - the order is not relevant and varying the order is satisfactory as well. The greater pleasure is that my husband is fully enjoying himself and as I see the gleam, yes, even after 8 years of marriage, in his eye as he teases and tantalizes, then my preference really falls to the wayside, as I only want him to be pleased because I know in that he will please me immensely. Just a little secret to the success of staying "in" love sexually past the first argument.
2006-07-24 22:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by dph_40 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that really depends on the woman, how she feels about you and where her mind is at. Geeze... I hope you give her some space & time before requiring an answer to a question like that!
2006-07-24 22:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by LL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral stimulation. It's all about the "game" beforehand.
2006-07-24 22:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kalina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though I am not a woman, but from my experience, I think.. BOTH.
2006-07-24 22:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by saumitra s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. I love it all. It's all great. As long as I am comfortable, I am fine.
2006-07-24 22:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by vixenrules80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little of both.
2006-07-24 22:06:18 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both, whatever causes the big "O" they will take it you bet they will any girls or women out there plz back me up.
2006-07-24 22:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by illprayforyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋