i feel my bf wants another girl how do i find out for sure
how do i ask him i feel it in the pitt of my heart and stomache
that he wants that girl
2006-07-24 21:27:08 · 10 answers · asked by london366 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
The issue here is trust.
Obviously you don't trust him
My advise is to learn to trust him or you will eat up yourself as long as you are with him. On the other hand, if you find out that he is cheating then he is not worth your trust and should probably leave. Let him do things per his values and choices and not by your threat or spying on him to prove you are right or wrong
2006-07-25 00:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by hotdesersand 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are a hundred ways he can do things behind your back and go undetected. But only for a limited period of time. There may be little you can do right now, but on the other hand...waiting and watching may be your best tact. And also confronting him in a polite way might be a test of his facial expression, how he responds, whether it looks like his fingers have been caught in the cookie jar, whether he tries to evade the subject, etc. In time, it will become more apparent whether he is a loyal boyfriend, or whether he's prone to stray...whether with that other girl or another girl.
2006-07-24 21:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH? That sucks to feel that way. try it for about five years it'll shortin ur life. Sounds like ur too young to be worried about something you can't control anyway. Find out from him and get it over with. Not knowing isn't closure. Paranoia is like mental illness.It's unrealistic and unhealthy. You should realize that emotional attachments are chemical and addictive. It takes time to ween urself away from someone. Know urself better first and control your emotions. You write it or just confront him. It happens to most normal people anyway. Usually when you confront someone they may not have eye contact and their voice will change. But you shouldn't jump to conclusions if someone else likes him anyway.
2006-07-24 21:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always trust your inner voice! Just ask him and see what happens. If he is not interested in anyone else... he'll try to make you at ease. If he's thinking of or is already wandering... he'll get mad. Move on.
Naw... don't play games. Just ask and act. Simple is good!
2006-07-24 21:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by LL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he keeps secret and sometimes thinking deeply of something even if you are infront of him. he does not care for you anymore or he just let you do what you want and he never cares everything you do. he also dont want you to mind he's own business.
2006-07-24 22:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by joy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you send him an anonymous mail heading that gal's name or nick name requesting that gal not to take your man.....you know dolly parton's....joline...dont take my man....best of luck......
....remember you have to just send him an idea how much a gal gets hurt after a break not any request directly to onyone....be brave....
2006-07-25 00:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a sobbing story abt this guy who want to break up with his gf to test him
2006-07-24 21:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, it probably is true
2006-07-25 03:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by Shawna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is ready to marry you.
2006-07-24 21:34:30 · answer #9 · answered by Dgirl112 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel it ,it is true, never ignore your intiution.
2006-07-25 05:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by karamelicousone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋